07.03.2019 Views

What Color Is Your Parachute 2018 by Richard N. Bolles copy

Create successful ePaper yourself

Turn your PDF publications into a flip-book with our unique Google optimized e-Paper software.

of any test are descriptors—not of you, but of your family—i.e., all<br />

those who answered the test the same way you did. The SAI family.<br />

Or the blue family. Or the INTJ family. Or whatever. The results are<br />

an accurate description of that family of people, in general; but are<br />

they descriptors also of you? Depends on whether or not you are a<br />

maverick in that family, the same way I was in mine. These family<br />

characteristics may or may not be true in every respect to you. You<br />

may be exactly like that group, or you may be different in important<br />

ways.<br />

2. Don’t try to figure out ahead of time how you want the test to<br />

come out. Stay loose and open to new ideas.<br />

It’s easy to develop an emotional investment that the test should<br />

come out a certain way. I remember a job-hunting workshop where I<br />

asked everyone to list the factors they liked about any place where<br />

they had ever lived, and then prioritize those factors, to get the name<br />

of a new place to live. We had this immensely lovable woman from<br />

Texas in the workshop, and when we all got back together after a<br />

“break” I asked her how she was doing. With a glint in her eye she<br />

said, “I’m prioritizing, and I’m gonna keep on prioritizin’, until it<br />

comes out: Texas!” That was amusing, as she intended it to be; it’s<br />

not so amusing when you try to make the test results come out a<br />

certain way. If you’re gonna take tests, you need to be open to new<br />

ideas. If you find yourself always trying to outguess the test, so it will<br />

confirm you on a path you’ve already decided upon, then testing is<br />

not for you.<br />

3. In taking a test, you should just be looking for clues, hunches, or<br />

suggestions, rather than for a definitive answer that says “this is<br />

what you must choose to do with your life.”<br />

And bear in mind that an online test isn’t likely to be as insightful<br />

as one administered <strong>by</strong> an experienced psychologist or counselor,<br />

who may see things that you can’t. But keep saying this mantra to<br />

yourself, as you read or hear the test results: “Clues. Clues, I’m only<br />

looking for clues.”<br />

4. Take several tests and not just one. One can easily send you down<br />

the wrong path.<br />

People who do a masters or doctorate program in “Testing and<br />

Measurement” know that tests are notoriously flawed, unscientific,

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!