What Color Is Your Parachute 2018 by Richard N. Bolles copy

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In Conclusion: Self-Esteem Versus Egotism As most of us know, the proper attitude toward ourselves is called “good self-esteem.” But self-esteem is an art. An art of balance. A balance between thinking too little of ourselves, and thinking too much of ourselves. The name for thinking too much of ourselves is “egotism.” We have all run into that, at some point in our lives, so we know what it looks like. Some of us have even caught a passing glimpse of it in the mirror. In our culture and others, we are taught to recoil from this in horror. We even have mythologies warning us against it; the story of Narcissus comes to mind. Poor guy! (See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ Narcissus_(mythology) if you are unfamiliar with the myth.) In order to avoid egotism, a lot of us go way overboard in the other direction. We shrink from ever declaring that we have any virtue, any excellency, any special gifts, lest we be accused of boasting. And so we fall into that opposite pit from egotism, namely, ingratitude. We appear ungrateful for the gifts that life, the universe, God—you name it—has already given us. So, how do we adopt the proper attitude toward our gifts—speaking of them honestly, humbly, gratefully—without sounding egotistical? Just this: the more you see your own gifts clearly, the more you must pay attention to the gifts that others have. The more sensitive you become to how unusual you are, the more you must become sensitive to how unusual those around you are. The more you pay attention to yourself, the more you must pay attention to others. The more you ponder the mystery of You, the more you must ponder the mystery of all those you encounter, every loved one, every friend, every acquaintance, every stranger. People from other cultures will tell you about “the tall poppy” theory of life, with its implication that you shouldn’t stand taller than others in your
field. That has a lot of truth to it. But you make yourself equal to others not by lowering yourself but by raising them. Pay attention to others. What are the favorite skills of your best friend or mate? Do you know? Are you sure? Have you asked them what they think they are? Have you complimented them on these skills, during the past week? Start now! Just remember, it’s no sin to praise yourself as long as that heightens your awareness of what there is to praise in others. 1. Time, March 16, 2015, p. 24. 2. Kayla DeVitto. 3. Daniel has summarized his system in a book published here in the U.S. in 1996: it is called The PIE Method for Career Success: A Unique Way to Find Your Ideal Job, published by JIST Works, Inc. It is now basically out of print but can be found used on Amazon.com, BarnesandNoble.com, or Alibris.com for as little as $5.65 plus shipping. Daniel has a wonderful website at www.porot.com/en.
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THE 2018 TABLE OF CONTENTS Chapter
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It was the best of times, It was th
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A Two-Minute Crash Course on How Mu
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market (that’s 455,000 people) or
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humans.” 7 Experts predict betwee
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two, to see what that job or field
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Internet, you will be wise beyond y
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MANY IF NOT MOST EMPLOYERS HUNT FOR
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this hire won’t work out. Twenty-
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factors as the place or places wher
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environment (because a job isn’t
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two or three sentences.) Often this
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He or she who gets hired is not nec
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Twitter, LinkedIn, Instagram, Pinte
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2. Fill In On any site, but on Link
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know what keywords to list, find so
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3. Expand Expand your presence on t
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4. Add It will take any employer or
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so, by what percent or dollar value
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Mechanical 32. Other than computers
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If you need additional guidance, se
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Wild Life, by John Kovalic, ©1989
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Alternatives to the Classic Resume
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4. A resume should have a purpose,
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looking for one thing: a reason—a
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Summary Okay, one more time: since
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6. For additional reading and guida
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CHAPTER 3 There Are Over Ten Millio
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You Are Not as Powerless as You Thi
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What’s going on, here? Why such a
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THE TEN GREATEST MISTAKES MADE IN J
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conversation: the one for a job. 1
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and those that have been around for
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Conversation Tip #3 Honor agreement
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Conversation Tip #5 Questions to ex
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2. “What can you do for us?” Th
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What future changes do you see in t
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Conversation Tip #6 During the inte
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Conversation Tip #8 The employer is
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Conversation Tip #9 It’s the smal
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you are speaking so softly you cann
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Conversation Tip #10 Be aware of th
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Conversation Tip #12 Do not bad-mou
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determining the employee’s tenure
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eplied “No,” to your first ques
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stand out in their minds. Lastly, i
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something like, “You came across
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THE TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR JOB- INTER
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Students spend four or more years L
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painfully, what you must learn too:
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Then you’ll need to fall back on:
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The Second Secret of Salary Negotia
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The Fourth Secret of Salary Negotia
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Salary Research off the Internet Ok
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The Fifth Secret of Salary Negotiat
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And so, when the employer has state
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The Sixth Secret of Salary Negotiat
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Conclusion: If Nothing Works Rememb
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It is common sense To take a method
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The Two Very Different Strategies f
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Sure, it’s harder to use this app
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The Eleven Best and Worst Tradition
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3. Answering local newspaper ads. T
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along the way. And done well, as in
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you for time spent pursuing them. B
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CHAPTER 7
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Why a SELF-Inventory Why does an in
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the next chapter. 6. If you are con
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How to Do a SELF-Inventory These ar
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initially—you may not be able to
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Section A. Here I put my list of te
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workbook pages are larger—8½ x 1
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Self-Inventory, Part 2 The Flower E
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I Am a Person Who… IS ALL THESE T
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workbook pages are larger—8½ x 1
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Petal One, Worksheet #1 A HEXAGON:
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gathered in the same corner of the
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column of the chart, and in the fou
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It’s important to know this befor
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DISTASTEFUL WORKING CONDITIONS CHAR
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PRIORITIZING GRID FOR 10 ITEMS OR L
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work-ethic,” “a positive attitu
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skills,” “financial skills,”
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Yes, I know, I know. You can’t do
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ead those books. Next I designed a
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your first story.
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our skills grid, etc., etc. And kee
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PRIORITIZING GRID FOR 10 ITEMS OR L
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Effective Energetic Enthusiastic Ex
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I Am a Person Who… HAS A CERTAIN
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what areas of human life in particu
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Petal Four, Worksheet #2 ESSAY: YOU
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cast it into the sea in order to ca
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for now, your goal is to just cast
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Self-Employment Transportation, War
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and #2 into one of these bins, go b
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Money is important. Or else we’re
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udget of what they think they will
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Support for your parents (if you’
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I Am a Person Who… PREFERS CERTAI
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example, the negative factor “rai
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The Two Rhythms of the Dance of Mis
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Some Random Comments About Your Fir
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In light of this larger view of our
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Temple called Gratitude. What is re
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every step of your way.” But inst
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know this is part of your Mission,
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Some Random Comments About Your Thi
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Jesus promised: “When the Spirit
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Comment 5: Examples of Mission as I
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APPENDIX B A Guide to Dealing with
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Ten Things We Can Do to Deal with O
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food banks, hospitals, housing aid,
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9. We can pound a punching bag or e
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Well, then, what does God do? To wh
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Economic Activity, March 8, 2011. 2
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If You Decide You Need One Fortunat
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How to Lose Your Shirt (or Skirt) S
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interview. One of the brightest cou
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angry. If you are dealing with a ca
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Of course, a job-hunter might—on
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A Sampler The following appendix is
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Of course, if you’re calling a lo
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APPENDIX D Sampler List of Coaches
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*Career Choices Dublin, CA Contact:
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Larsen, Lauralyn Career Counselor &
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Alpharetta, GA 30022 Phone: 678-822
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Albany, NY 12205 Phone: 518-366-845
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Contact: (Ms.) Shirin Khamisa, B.A.
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Earlwood, NSW 2206 Phone: 61 2 9787
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www.johnleescareers.com *Real
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THE FINAL WORD: Notes from the Auth
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cerebral hemorrhage, at age fifty-e
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A Grammar and Language Note I want
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR DICK BOLLES—more
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Please make a copy for your own rec
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Building-block diagram of skills Bu
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Diagrams A minus B equals C Buildin
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temporary (temp agencies) Employmen
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K Keirsey Temperament Sorter Keywor
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ADDITIONAL HELPFUL RESOURCES FROM T
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