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5-Endless Bliss Fifth Fascicle - Hakikat Kitabevi

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several times; then, he should trust himself to Allâhu ta’âlâ and<br />

ask His help to protect him from being interfered with and<br />

deceived by his nafs and by base people.<br />

One should strive to perform the nikâh in agreement with the<br />

four Madhhabs. For making a valid and correct nikâh according<br />

to Shâfi’î, Hanbalî and Mâlikî Madhhabs, the first condition is<br />

that the walî of the girl has to give permission to her even if she<br />

is beyond the age of puberty. ‘Friend’ is the lexical meaning for<br />

the word ‘walî’. If it is used in the subject of Aqâid (belief), it<br />

means ârif-i billah. If it is used in the subject of Fiqh then it<br />

means a (grown-up) male relative. According to these three<br />

Madhhabs the walî is one’s father. If you do not have a father,<br />

then the walî is your father’s father, and after that the walî is<br />

your paternal great grandfather. If you do not have paternal<br />

fathers, then your walî is your brother. If you do not have a<br />

brother, either, then the walî is your brother’s son, next to whom<br />

is his son. If you do not have any of these, then your walî is<br />

your uncle. If you do not have that one either then the walî is<br />

your uncle’s son and after that your uncle’s grandson. If you do<br />

not have any of these relatives then your walî will be the judge.<br />

[The judge has to be a person who obeys the Sharî’at and who<br />

leads a life agreeable with the laws of Allâhu ta’âla]. The order<br />

of being a walî in matters of marriage is the same as its order in<br />

matters of inheritance after death. However, according to the<br />

Sâfi’î Madhhab, the son and son’s son cannot be a walî.<br />

According to Imâm al-Muhammad and Hanbalî Madhhab, after<br />

the paternal fathers the son and then the son’s son will become<br />

a walî. According to the Shaikhayn (Imâm A’zam and Imâm Abû<br />

Yûsuf), the son and the son’s son will become the walî before<br />

the paternal fathers. In Hanafî Madhhab the consent of a walî is<br />

not a must-condition for the marriage of a girl who has<br />

exceeded the age of puberty. It is mustahab before the nikâh to<br />

ask for the permission of a girl who has passed the age of<br />

puberty. The person to whom she gives her permission<br />

becomes her wakîl. If the nikâh is performed without her<br />

permission, she is free to accept or to reject it. If she rejects it,<br />

the nikâh becomes void. A woman can get married either by<br />

herself or by her wakil or by her walî. [In Hanafî Madhhab,<br />

orphans who do not have male walîs can get married through<br />

their mothers.]<br />

The second condition of nikâh: It is necessary in Hanafî<br />

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