5-Endless Bliss Fifth Fascicle - Hakikat Kitabevi
5-Endless Bliss Fifth Fascicle - Hakikat Kitabevi
5-Endless Bliss Fifth Fascicle - Hakikat Kitabevi
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several times; then, he should trust himself to Allâhu ta’âlâ and<br />
ask His help to protect him from being interfered with and<br />
deceived by his nafs and by base people.<br />
One should strive to perform the nikâh in agreement with the<br />
four Madhhabs. For making a valid and correct nikâh according<br />
to Shâfi’î, Hanbalî and Mâlikî Madhhabs, the first condition is<br />
that the walî of the girl has to give permission to her even if she<br />
is beyond the age of puberty. ‘Friend’ is the lexical meaning for<br />
the word ‘walî’. If it is used in the subject of Aqâid (belief), it<br />
means ârif-i billah. If it is used in the subject of Fiqh then it<br />
means a (grown-up) male relative. According to these three<br />
Madhhabs the walî is one’s father. If you do not have a father,<br />
then the walî is your father’s father, and after that the walî is<br />
your paternal great grandfather. If you do not have paternal<br />
fathers, then your walî is your brother. If you do not have a<br />
brother, either, then the walî is your brother’s son, next to whom<br />
is his son. If you do not have any of these, then your walî is<br />
your uncle. If you do not have that one either then the walî is<br />
your uncle’s son and after that your uncle’s grandson. If you do<br />
not have any of these relatives then your walî will be the judge.<br />
[The judge has to be a person who obeys the Sharî’at and who<br />
leads a life agreeable with the laws of Allâhu ta’âla]. The order<br />
of being a walî in matters of marriage is the same as its order in<br />
matters of inheritance after death. However, according to the<br />
Sâfi’î Madhhab, the son and son’s son cannot be a walî.<br />
According to Imâm al-Muhammad and Hanbalî Madhhab, after<br />
the paternal fathers the son and then the son’s son will become<br />
a walî. According to the Shaikhayn (Imâm A’zam and Imâm Abû<br />
Yûsuf), the son and the son’s son will become the walî before<br />
the paternal fathers. In Hanafî Madhhab the consent of a walî is<br />
not a must-condition for the marriage of a girl who has<br />
exceeded the age of puberty. It is mustahab before the nikâh to<br />
ask for the permission of a girl who has passed the age of<br />
puberty. The person to whom she gives her permission<br />
becomes her wakîl. If the nikâh is performed without her<br />
permission, she is free to accept or to reject it. If she rejects it,<br />
the nikâh becomes void. A woman can get married either by<br />
herself or by her wakil or by her walî. [In Hanafî Madhhab,<br />
orphans who do not have male walîs can get married through<br />
their mothers.]<br />
The second condition of nikâh: It is necessary in Hanafî<br />
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