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5-Endless Bliss Fifth Fascicle - Hakikat Kitabevi

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very hard in order to maintain his children and also to maintain<br />

his new family. The wrong, depraved and uncanonical actions<br />

of irreligious, lâ-madhhabî and ignorant people should not be<br />

exploited as grounds for censuring Islam].<br />

For an Islamic marriage to be sahîh (valid), both the groom<br />

and the bride have to be Muslims. That is, they have to know<br />

and believe the tenets of belief (îmân) and Islam. If there is<br />

doubt concerning their îmân, the person who will perform the<br />

nîkâh, after saying the Basmala, the (prayers of) hamd and<br />

salawât, mentions the six tenets of îmân and the five principles<br />

of Islam one by one and has the groom and the bride say them,<br />

too. Then he states the Sifât-i-dhâtiyya and the Sifât-ithubûtiyya<br />

of Allâhu ta’âlâ, the important attributes of Prophets<br />

and angels, the teachings pertaining to grave and the Hereafter,<br />

respectively, and has them repeat. He has them say, “We<br />

believe, we have îmân,” “I am a Believer, I am a Muslim.” Then<br />

he must perform the nikâh, beginning with the groom or his<br />

wakîl. It is stated as follows in Radd-ul-mukhtâr: “When both<br />

the woman and the man are present, it is not permissible for<br />

them to perform the nikâh by writing. When they are not<br />

together, it is permissible for one of them to send a letter and<br />

the other read the letter in the presence of two witnesses and<br />

accept it orally. It is not permissible if both parties state their<br />

parts in written form. The woman reads or explains the letter<br />

she has received from the man to two witnesses and says, ‘Be<br />

my witnesses! I have accepted to be his wife.’ The woman’s<br />

reading the letter to the witnesses is equivalent to the man’s<br />

proposing orally in the presence of the witnesses.”<br />

Ibni Âbidîn ‘rahmatullâhi ta’âlâ aleyh’ makes the following<br />

explanation in his depiction of the witnesses for a nikâh: “Like in<br />

all sorts of contracts, presence of two witnesses is not<br />

necessary as you appoint someone your wakîl (proxy) for a<br />

nikâh. However, it is mustahab there to be two witnesses during<br />

any kind of contract. And their presence during the performance<br />

of a nikâh is a condition, a must. It has been stated (by some<br />

scholars) that it is wâjib to have two witnesses during a lending<br />

contract. Although it is not a condition to prepare a written<br />

document in commercial proceedings, in proxy authorizations or<br />

in any other contracts, it is necessary during a lending contract<br />

and mustahab during the nikâh. In proxy authorization and in<br />

nikâh, it is necessary for the witnesses [or for the person to be<br />

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