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5-Endless Bliss Fifth Fascicle - Hakikat Kitabevi

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A person who gets married should do so with the intention of<br />

protecting himself from fornication, from looking at harâms. He<br />

should make his niyyat (intention) to raise sâlih children, to<br />

contribute to the multiplication Muhammad’s ‘alaihis-salâm’<br />

Ummat, and to adapt himself to his Sunnat in nikâh. To attempt<br />

to hoard property through harâm, and to adduce one’s<br />

household as an excuse for this illegitimate way of earning,<br />

betrays the fact that one has not made one’s nikâh compatibly<br />

with the Sunnat.<br />

The nikâh called Mut’a or Muwaqqat (temporary) is harâm<br />

in all the four Madh-habs. The nikâh of Mut’a means to enter<br />

into a temporary cohabitation agreement with a woman by<br />

paying her a certain amount of money without any witnesses. It<br />

is written in the books Mîzân-ul-kubrâ and Ibni Âbidîn that the<br />

nikâh of Mut’a is harâm and that the report stating that “Imâm-i-<br />

Mâlik said that it was permissible” should be wrong. As for the<br />

nikâh that is called Muwaqqat (temporary); it is a kind of nikâh<br />

performed in compliance with all its conditions except that<br />

divorce after a certain period of time, (be it a hundred years<br />

later), has been stipulated as a condition, (which makes the<br />

nikâh null and void). If a person only passes through his heart<br />

(the thought that he is going to divorce his wife later) without<br />

transferring his thought into words, his nikâh will be sahîh.<br />

If a woman who has no male relatives to accompany her in<br />

her travel for hajj marries a man going on hajj so that she can<br />

go on hajj with him and then gets divorced from him, their<br />

marriage is harâm because it is temporary. On the other hand, it<br />

is harâm for women to go on hajj alone. It is not permissible for<br />

a woman to go on a three days’ travel without one of her<br />

eternally mahram relatives or her husband to accompany her.<br />

According to a report coming from Imâm-i-a’zam Abû Hanîfa<br />

and Imâm-i-Abû Yûsuf ‘rahmatullâhi ta’âlâ alaihimâ’, it is<br />

makrûh for a free woman (a woman who is not a slave) to go on<br />

a day’s travel without her mahram relative. It is written in the<br />

fifth volume of Fatâwâ-yi-Hindiyya that when the distance is<br />

shorter than a day’s walk she can go without any of her mahram<br />

relatives provided she will be among sâlih men.<br />

It is stated in Uqûd-ud-durriyya, “It is sahîh to demand to<br />

be taught (how to read) Qur’ân al-kerîm as the mahr. For it is<br />

permissible to make mahr from something for which payment is<br />

permissible. When a person sends his wife something in<br />

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