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5-Endless Bliss Fifth Fascicle - Hakikat Kitabevi

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elatives even if they are not relatives by blood but relatives by<br />

suckling or by adultery. Only, one can marry one’s son’s milksister<br />

and one’s brother’s milk-mother (wet nurse). In Hanbalî<br />

Madhhab anyone who sucks (from the same mother),<br />

regardless of age, becomes a milk relative, but according to the<br />

imâms ‘rahmatullâhi ta’âlâ ’alaihim ajma’în’ of the other three<br />

Madhhabs, if they suck milk after the age of two and a half, they<br />

will not become milk relatives.<br />

It is also eternally harâm to marry four kinds of women who<br />

become relatives after marriage. If one has already performed<br />

the nikâh, or had adultery with a woman, then he can never<br />

marry her mother, her mother’s mother, or her father’s mother.<br />

When a man has sex with his wife, he can never marry the<br />

daughter which she had from another husband. A man can<br />

never marry a woman with whom his father or his own son<br />

made a nikâh, i.e. his step-mother or his daughter-in-law. A<br />

woman can never marry her step-father, stepson, father-in-law<br />

or son-in law. It is permissible to marry an “Âkhirat-sister” or<br />

“Âkhirat-brother”, or brother-or-sister-in Tarîqat, or “Âkhiratmother.”<br />

The case with these people is unlike the case with<br />

one’s own sister or mother. It is harâm for one to see their<br />

heads, hair, arms, legs, to chat with them, to stay alone with<br />

them in the same room, or to travel long distance with them.<br />

These things are not halâl in any Tarîqat. He who says that they<br />

are halâl becomes a disbeliever, a zindiq.<br />

There are seven more women whom a man cannot marry<br />

due to temporary situations. When these temporary situations<br />

cease to exist he can marry them. Five of them are harâm due<br />

to a nikâh. After performing a nikâh, one cannot marry the girl’s<br />

sister. If the woman whom one has already married dies, or if<br />

one divorces her, then one can marry her sister.<br />

While a man is married to a woman, it will be harâm for him<br />

to marry her paternal and maternal aunts, or her sisters’ or<br />

brothers’ daughters. It is also harâm to marry these five women<br />

when they are the wife’s milk-relatives.<br />

In Hanafî, Mâlikî and Hanbalî Madhhabs the women who are<br />

harâm for one to marry because of the sex act one performs<br />

with one’s wife, will also become harâm to marry in case of an<br />

illegal sex act (adultery) one performs with a nâ-mahram<br />

woman. But according to Shâfi’î Madhhab these women do not<br />

become prohibited for one to marry because of the illegal sex<br />

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