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marry me for so much mahr (saying the amount of mahr),’ and if<br />

the wakîl makes the proposal by offering an amount of money<br />

more than the mahr (advised by the former), it will not be<br />

necessary to give the excess, too. The former may consent to<br />

give the extra amount if he likes. Or he may cancel the nikâh if<br />

he likes. If he is informed after the marriage ceremony and then<br />

cancels the nikâh, he will have to give ‘Mahr-i-mithl.’ A nikâh<br />

that is performed by saying that “Allâhu ta’âlâ and His<br />

Messenger ‘sall-Allâhu alaihi wa sallâm’ are witnesses” will not<br />

be sahîh. There are even scholars who say that it is disbelief.”<br />

It is stated as follows in Majmû’a-i-zuhdiyya: If a man, in<br />

the presence of two male witnesses, writes on a piece of paper,<br />

“I have taken you as my wife,” and if the girl writes, “I have<br />

accepted,” the nikâh will not have been effected. They have to<br />

say it. If a girl reads to the witnesses a letter that says, “I have<br />

taken you as my wife,” and which has been written by a man<br />

who is absent, and then says, “I have accepted,” the nikâh will<br />

have been effected. If a man sends someone to a girl and asks<br />

her through him to be his wife and if the girl, in the presence of<br />

two witnesses who have heard the proposal, answers, “I have<br />

accepted,” the nikâh will have been accomplished. If, instead of<br />

reading the letter, she says that the letter says so, again, the<br />

nikâh will have been effected. In a nikâh, it is a condition that<br />

the îjâb [offer, proposal] and the qabûl [acceptance] be made<br />

during the same meeting, yet it is permissible to tell the<br />

witnesses about a letter of îjâb coming from someone being at<br />

some other place in one meeting and to say that one accepts it<br />

in another meeting. If a woman authorizes someone as her<br />

wakîl to marry her to a man and if this wakîl performs the nikâh<br />

in the presence of this woman and two female witnesses, the<br />

nikâh will be sahîh. If a person marries a woman by saying that<br />

he does not have another wife, this marriage (nikâh) will not be<br />

annulled if it is found out later that he has had another wife. So<br />

is the case with any other sort of false condition. If a woman<br />

makes someone her wakîl to marry her to a man on condition<br />

that he (the man she is to marry) will not have a jâriya during his<br />

marriage with her and if the wakîl performs the nikâh without<br />

stating the condition and with someone other than the man<br />

named by the woman, the woman can refuse the nikâh. A small<br />

girl can be married to a man by her father in his death-bed in<br />

the presence of witnesses. If a person has a female paternal<br />

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