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Signs of Sex and Caution Mini-lecture<br />

l.Remind students that there are two ways to avoid pregnancy and<br />

HIV infection: say no to sex, or use protection. To be successful at<br />

either, you have to GET READY NOW. Many teens who get<br />

pregnant or infected say they didn't protect themselves because<br />

they didn't expect to have sex. In one recent study, two-thirds of<br />

teens who had sex without protection said it "just happened." Tell<br />

them there are signs they can watch for that wíI1 alert them that<br />

sex could happen.<br />

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Ask students to think of the signs in two categories: yellow alert<br />

and red alert.<br />

2. Yellow alerts are signals that there may be an unprotected "sex<br />

crisis" in the future and that you should slow down and prepare<br />

yourself to avoid pregnancy or infection. Yellow alert signals occur<br />

when you:<br />

a. are not yet with the boyar girl;<br />

b. think that he or she might be thinking about sex;<br />

C. think that there will be a chance for sex because you will be<br />

alone; or<br />

d. wonder what will happen.<br />

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Yellow alert signals tell you that you had better develop a sound<br />

plan for avoiding having sex, getting pregnant or becoming infected.<br />

You may notice yellow alert signals long before the time<br />

that you are seeing the boyar girl. For example, you may notice<br />

that you are being especially careful about the clothes you pick<br />

out, or especially anxious about what you will say and do, or<br />

maybe you can't wait to get to school, or you wear something<br />

different or special to school or out at night. If you know what<br />

your signs are and watch for them, you will have enough time to<br />

act and avoid unwanted sex, pregnancy or HIV infection. If you<br />

miss the signs, you will not.<br />

3.Red alert signs show that there is going to be an unprotected "sex<br />

crisis" at any moment and you have to act fast to avoid it. Red<br />

alert signs usually occur about 20 minutes to an hour before the<br />

crisis when:<br />

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