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o . You are alone with the boy or girl.<br />

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b. You may have done a lot of touching and feeling close.<br />

You can still stop and decide not to have sex or you can still use<br />

protection. But if you go past a red alert signal without stopping<br />

and/or preparing first, your life may be forever changed.<br />

4. List "Yellow Alert" and "Red Alert" headings on the board and<br />

offer a few examples of signs (see Teacher reference 6.1). Then<br />

add signs that the students suggest.<br />

5. Lead students in a discussion that focuses on what to do to avoid<br />

unwanted or unprotected sex. Use signs offered by students to<br />

shape the discussion;<br />

Handling<br />

Crisis Situations<br />

l.Explain to students that they now have had the opportunity to<br />

clearly identify sex alert situations. The next step is to learn to<br />

deal effectively with those situations. That is, they need to think<br />

about possible ways to get out of an alert situation.<br />

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2. Distribute Handling Crisis Situations (Worksheet 6.2). Students<br />

should name two yellow alert signs and .two red alert signs and<br />

identify an alternative action plan for each. Tell students that red<br />

alert situations usually require alternative actions, delaying or<br />

refusal until the crisis passes or until you are able to get protection.<br />

In yellow alert situations, students can avoid the situation<br />

entirely or get protection so that a red alert situation doesn't occur.<br />

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3. Discuss an example: If the student wrote "I get dressed up in my<br />

sexiest clothes" as a yellow alert sign, he or she might generate an<br />

alternative action plan such as:<br />

a. I'm going to think through what I will do to stop if Iget close<br />

to having sex.<br />

b. I'll plan something to do that will keep us away from having<br />

sex.<br />

C. I'll stop and get protection at the drugstore before I see him or<br />

her.<br />

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