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Relationship<br />

Characteristics<br />

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healthy or unhealthy relationships, you can prepare cards for them to tape onto the ships using the<br />

following characteristics. Simply write them out in advance on index cards or type and.prínt them,<br />

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INSULTING ONE ANOTHER<br />

SPENDING TIME APART<br />

JEALOUSY<br />

SEXUAL ATIRACTION<br />

CARING FOR EACH OTHER<br />

SAYING "I LOVE YOU"<br />

LYING<br />

EXPRESSING ANGER<br />

PLAY FIGHTING<br />

COMPLIMENTING EACH OTHER<br />

LISTENING TO EACH OTHER<br />

LYING, TO PROTECT FEELINGS<br />

BREAKING OR THREATENING TO BREAK<br />

VALUABLES<br />

CHECKING THE OTHER PERSON'S<br />

BEEPERS AND CELL PHONE<br />

CHEERING YOUR PARTNER UP, WHEN<br />

THEY FEEL DOWN<br />

FEELING SECURE AND COMFORTABLE<br />

RESPECT<br />

SEXUAL PRESSURE<br />

FEELING SECURE<br />

PUSHING OR SHOVING<br />

ENJOYING SIMILAR ACTIVITIES<br />

ALWAYS PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST<br />

EXPRESSING ANGER<br />

SHARING SECRETS<br />

CONSTANT PUT-DOWNS<br />

HAVING PRIVACY IN A RELATIONSHIP<br />

SPENDING ALMOST ALL OF YOUR TIME<br />

WITH YOUR PARTNER<br />

EXPECTING FAVORS, SEXUAl.., OR<br />

OTHERWISE, IN EXCHANGE, FOR<br />

GIFTS<br />

CHEATING<br />

CRITICIZING<br />

MAKING FUN OF EACH OTHER<br />

HOLDING HANDS<br />

RIDICULING THE OTHER'S FAMILY<br />

HONESTY<br />

DOING EVERYTHING FOR THE OTHER<br />

PERSON<br />

MAKING EXCUSES FOR THE OTHER'S<br />

BEHAVIOR<br />

TELLING YOUR PARTNER HOW YOU<br />

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ISOLATION. FROM FRIENDS AND<br />

FAMILY<br />

TRUST<br />

CURSING EACH OTHER OUT<br />

NOT BEING THERE IN A TIME OF NE'ED<br />

OPEN COMMUNICATION<br />

STEALING FROM YOUR PARTNER<br />

TELLING THE OTHER TO DRESS MORE<br />

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NOT MAKING TIME FOR EACH OTHER<br />

ALWAYS PAYING FOR EVERYTHING<br />

ONE PARTNER ALWAYS DOING<br />

THINGS FOR THE OTHER<br />

IGNORING EACH OTHER<br />

YELLING<br />

NEEDING SOME SPACE<br />

SHOWING DISRESPECT FOR THE<br />

,OTHER<br />

NOT LISTENING TO ONE ANOTHER<br />

ENJOYING SPENDING tIME TOGETHER<br />

ONE PARTNER CONTROLLING THE<br />

OTHER<br />

GIVING GIFTS<br />

KEEPING SECRETS<br />

MAKING COMPROMISES<br />

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