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SELFISHNESS IS YOUR SAVIOR
Up until now, the word “selfish” has been negative. It has been
used to guilt you and make you give up more of yourself than
you wanted to under the guise of being a good person. You
don’t have to put other people in front of you to be a good
person. You don’t have to sacrifice your wants and desires in
favor of someone else’s hopes and dreams in order to get
blessings. Even when you were playing this game while
asleep, events were nudging you towards the truth of, Do you.
This world is made for you, but you keep letting people take
your spot in line, out of some misplaced concept of kindness.
Selflessness and servitude are hustles and you know it; that’s
why you feel a certain way when you see people who look out
for themselves achieving things that, according to this
imagined rulebook, they shouldn’t achieve. Your true self
keeps pointing you in the direction of “Put yourself first,” but
you’re afraid to do that, so history keeps repeating itself
because you can’t take your own hint!
You are a Spartan, this is your world, it revolves around
you like the earth revolves around the sun because you are the
one powering it! Be nice to people, be kind, and be considerate
all you want, but at the end of the day, never put someone else
before you. This is your creation, but guilt has made you play
Alfred instead of Batman. You aren’t a fucking supporting
character, you aren’t a sidekick, and you aren’t meant to wait
until you die to transport to some other reality where you get a
cookie for being a doormat. You have to take center stage now
or this experience you call life will have been a waste. A
boring generic waste where you let everyone ride the best rides
because you didn’t want to be inconsiderate. You have the
right to ride the rollercoaster, get off and ride it again without
getting back in line, because this is your theme park. You must
cultivate the Spartan mind which demands: Me comes before
He or She. The old subservient mind led to women being used
unabashedly by friends, family, and lovers. Family members
borrow money that they never pay back, but it’s okay because
the weak part of you says, “They must need it more than me.”
Friends drag you along to places you don’t want to go, but you
play along because “I have to be a good friend.” Yet when you