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Commitment Isn’t Always a
Commitment
What makes a man want to stop playing the game and settle
down? That’s a trick question because settling down doesn’t
necessitate that he stops playing the game. Even if you aren’t
seen as a Game Changer, a man will still hibernate in your
vagina, giving you all the surface benefits of being his girl, but
his heart isn’t settled, it’s still longing for The One. He will
play that boyfriend role, but his effort won’t be 100%. You
have experienced this or are experiencing it right now, a man
who seems distracted, who keeps saying he cares, who claims
he will change, but his actions repeatedly prove that he’s
apathetic. You’re confused as to why your “boyfriend” isn’t
living up to that title. You wonder why he even bothered to
enter into the relationship if he was going to act indifferent.
You place blame on yourself because you think something had
to cause this change. You search for ways to repair the
relationship from your side of the ball as if it’s all your fault.
You’re missing out on the easy answer that’s right under your
nose where your ego dares not look: He isn’t invested in you
because you’re a Placeholder!
You are not the permanent solution, just something to
tide him over. No matter how good his mask of lies is
constructed, the truth peeks through the longer you stay
together. Most women are just something to do, the key word
being “most” so understand that you may be the rule, not the
exception. We discussed the role of the placeholder earlier, but
I will remind you that this is not relegated to girls who are
FWB, Situationship baes, side chicks, or any other female you
can point to as dumb because she’s agreeing to a nonexclusive
relationship with a man she actually wants to be
with monogamously. Men get in relationships with women
they don’t want every day! The misconception is that you’ve
won because he agreed to the title, not so. Be attentive,
because he may still view you as lacking that X-Factor that he
needs to actually give his heart to you. I want to dwell on this
because despite covering it earlier, I meet so many women
hung up on the idea that a man doesn’t need to lie or fake a