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her plans weren’t dependent on him. I juxtapose that story
with one where my wife’s former classmate moved to Los
Angeles to be with her boyfriend. He didn’t think the city was
to his liking and went back to New York. She couldn’t leave,
as her parents sacrificed their savings to send her across the
country. The man wasn’t loyal to her struggle, he put himself
first and flew back to NYC. She remained miserable for over a
year, sunk into depression, developed a drinking problem, and
finally went back to the home she never wanted to leave. Men
put their dreams first, and so should you; not out of ego, but
out of your own want to conquer life.
All of those late night talks about ambition don’t mean
shit when put to the test. People imagine what life will be, but
opportunities that spring up can’t be imagined. The fun of your
game is that it could take you anywhere, but remember, if
these life choices don’t benefit your true self, then every move
you make based on a whim or for a man’s love, will prove illfated.
His goals must line up with your goals, not the other
way around. There is no need to declare, “I follow my
ambitions, so it’s my way or the highway,” to your boyfriend
during the first month. Know it in your heart. Share your
dreams as he shares his from the outset, but be prepared to
have the courage of your convictions if they begin to differ.