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level will prove or disprove how serious this new relationship

is, by throwing one, if not all of the following hurdles at you…

Family or Friend Interference

Friends and Family operate on two stages. When you’re

casually dating, you are seen as a non-threat by his family or

group of friends, and depending on your circle, the man is

usually seen as a non-threat as well. Just another guy trying to

lock you down who may or may not be around next week. Few

people are looking at the two of you like, “Oh, they’re going

to be together forever,” you may have a fan in his mother, and

he may have a fan in your best friend, but this isn’t the first

person they have seen you date or take an interest in, so why

would they get emotionally invested? Once you switch over to

being official, things get interesting. The family members that

embraced you during dating may talk behind your back. Those

friends of yours who liked your guy may admit they don’t like

him; they were just staying out of your business. For those that

care about him and those that truly care about you, they need

to see proof this is a legitimate person with real intentions. The

smile and get along stage has ended, and you could be left

stuck in the middle of personal bias that can rip you two apart.

I get an enormous amount of “mama’s boy” emails

where women are suddenly blindsided when a man’s mother

fights to keep him tied to her hip as if he were her husband as

opposed to your boyfriend. One story that comes to mind is a

good example that shows how a man who is not a typical

mama’s boy, can still be influenced by outside interference.

There was a woman we’ll call Miss Tanya, who had a son and

a daughter. The daughter was married to a man who was a

deadbeat, but she didn’t seem to care; her investment wasn’t in

her idiot daughter but in her smart and handsome son. Miss

Tanya’s son Kenny had the potential to do great things and

needed a woman to fit Mama’s vision. Kenny began dating a

woman Miss Tanya referred to as, “a 5 out of 10,” so I’ll call

her Lady Five. Miss Tanya first met Lady Five early in the

relationship when Kenny had to stop by his mother’s house.

Miss Tanya looked Lady Five up and down, and marveled at

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