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behind your current boyfriend’s back is his aim. Men notice

you, noticing them, noticing you. You’re telling your friends

he has started following you on social media, texting you, or

calling. Why? Because you secretly love the attention.

A Spartan does not give a fuck about some ex showing

up, liking a picture, sending a text, or any form of

communication meant to snake his way into her mind. She is

too strong to fall for manipulation, and if you aren’t, then you

still have a long way to go. The other side of the coin is an ex

or an old “we used to talk,” guy being aggressive and laying

out a strategy to actively get a girl open. I’ve been that guy on

the other end of the phone trying to squirm my way back into

old pussy under false pretenses. Not because I was jealous or

wanted a do-over, I wanted to prove to myself that I was better

than her new man. Understand this, don’t let your own ego

lead you to believe a past man’s interest admits anything more

than competition. I’ve had sex with virtually all of my exes

after they moved on to new guys, because I knew they were

mentally vulnerable, they had egos that made them want to

show me what I was missing, and in the end, meaningless sex

was all they got, which is a waste of any woman’s time.

I will assume that if you are in a new relationship your

old wounds are healed, and unlike my exes, you won’t be

talked into reuniting for one last roll around. Regardless of

your standards, you can’t think because you aren’t ever going

to have sex or go back, that an old bae can’t affect your

relationship in other ways. The cool ex with a girlfriend but

still flirts with you, blocked. The guy you were dating, but

want to put in the friendzone because he’s funny, blocked.

There is nothing wrong with having male friends, but realize

an opportunist when you see one. A person that wants you will

always be after you. The smarter the man, the more stealth his

moves. He knows you have a boyfriend. So? He can still send

a text or call during a late night session with your current guy,

and now you have to explain why that guy is hitting you up.

He can still drop hints that you two “still talk” which can be

taken back to a friend of your man, and made into a situation

you have to defend. Being naïve isn’t an excuse, a Spartan

understands the chess board and knows how each piece moves

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