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You will spend so much energy investing in a man,

trying to understand a man, and putting up with that man’s

shit. Is it really because you love him? Or is it because you

hate to fail? To tell the world how loved you are, then have to

explain why it’s over—stings your pride. To get engaged to a

man, then have to call it off—stings your pride. To get

married, to throw your vows in the face of the world as if you

figured out the secret to love, then have it end in divorce—

stings your pride. You hold on to a sinking ship because you

know that the rest of the world is waiting for you to fail, for

you to prove that you aren’t as good as advertised. Are you the

type of girlfriend who has this chip on her shoulder, who is

fueled by pride to the point of self-destruction, or are you in it

for happiness?

Will you leave your boyfriend if you are no longer

happy? Be honest. It’s easy to say “yes” when you don’t have

a boyfriend, but the true answer only comes during the

relationship stage. Women in relationships are rarely 100%

happy, but they continue to stay. They may complain to a few

close friends or family members, but they refuse to tell

themselves the complete truth—it’s not working. Shame,

embarrassment, the myth that a “good girlfriend” can make

any relationship work; these things keep the average woman

trying to fix something that broke a long time ago. This too

shall pass, if you love each other you will make it work, hang

in there…no one gives solutions, they serve up positive clichés

that do nothing. You don’t know anyone with real answers, so

you look for books on how to “rekindle the love” or seek

advice in secret to figure out the mind of your man. Why?

Breaking up is not a real option because your pride sees it as

giving up, so you stay. For the Non-Spartan, the answer to the

above question is “no” you won’t leave your boyfriend.

Happiness isn’t as important as maintaining your relationship

status. What a sad life to live.

Spartan Girlfriends Do It Better

To date like a Spartan from the onset will make basic

relationship problems a non-factor. The typical things women

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