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will sleep with you the first time you get her alone. Would you
gamble on that date by being yourself…or would you come in
with jokes and levity as you sit there and let the woman do all
the talking? You would put on a mask too, because why work
for something that someone is going to give you based on
doing absolutely nothing?
Have you ever asked, “Why do men lie so much over
nothing?” This is a part of that larger mentality. White lies
don’t hurt anyone and they get me what I want. He didn’t tell
you about his girlfriend, he didn’t tell you he was unemployed,
he didn’t tell you he still lived with his ex-girl; he didn’t tell
you he doesn’t actually want a relationship, etc. Although
these men are grown and shouldn’t be afraid of scaring you
off, they are controlled by habit. Logic tells a man, “This
woman doesn’t know me from Paul, but she likes me a lot
anyway. Let me keep my mouth closed and collect what she
wants to give me, because if I am forthcoming with the truth,
my ‘complications’ will come off as deal breakers.” You, or
someone you know, have been in relationships that would have
never been entered into if the whole truth was known from the
first date. And that’s the point, no matter how many women
say, “Tell me the truth, it won’t change anything,” men know
that’s a lie. You would gather your shit and run if you knew
what was in the mind of the average man that’s sitting across
from you.
Let’s pretend that you fell in love with the looks of a
man that had a girl pregnant at the time you were first dating.
He didn’t tell you this and you didn’t think to ask anything
that hinted at his past. After a few weeks, sex entered the
picture, he knew how to lay pipe, and now you like him even
more. Next thing you know, he’s calling you his girl, and
although you didn’t agree to this, you love being called his
girl, so you roll with it. A month later, you and Mr. Sexy still
haven’t talked about anything real in terms of his past. Now
you see him tagged on a Facebook picture congratulating him
on the birth of his first child. You don’t want to be with a man
who has a baby. You don’t want to go down to the courthouse
and stand with him as he demands a paternity test. You don’t
want to help him cover child support. You don’t want to