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Cali’s random question now leads into internal feelings and
motivation. Did Stephen really want to fuck that girl? Was his
anger really a result of sexual tension? Stephen denies it,
saying the girl wasn’t his type. This opens him up to what his
type is without being too forward. Cali doesn’t have to ask,
“So what’s your type?” and have Stephen be PC. By framing it
within a past story, she can say, “Why wasn’t this girl your
type,” with the focus on that girl, yet it still tells her how
Stephen really feels about all women. Cali teases, “in college I
thought pussy is the default type for men, don’t tell me you
were one of those, I’m looking for wifey types in undergrad?”
Again, Cali is challenging Stephen to be different, not some
sweetheart. Men want to be men, but on dates, they are forced
to protect how savage they come off, for fear of turning a girl
off. Cali is unleashing this man’s realness by daring him to be
a bad boy. Stephen admits he hooked up with a few girls he
would never take home to his mother, and that while his
roommate’s girlfriend wasn’t ugly, she didn’t have an attitude
that turned him on. Stephen has been lead to talk, and like any
man, he will explain his wants without any further questions
because Cali triggered a topic that this man actually wants to
expand upon. Stephen will go into how he doesn’t like ghetto
girls, his problem with women around his age, and even get on
a soapbox about how women today don’t know how to be
women.
This isn’t offensive to Cali because she too knows how
annoying most women can be. She simply sits and nods,
allowing Stephen to vent. As he winds down, Cali hits him
again, “What’s the nastiest thing you did in college sexually,
and if you say something corny like doggy style, I’m walking
out.” Stephen again is faced with a random question. He was
prepared to talk more about his “type” or “attitude” but Cali
threw him a curve ball and made it about sex. Stephen has no
idea who this woman is, and he’s sweating. The waiter comes
back for the order; Stephen is saved by the bell.
Stephen loses the bet by choosing fish. Cali reveals that
she’s a lamb girl. Stephen checks the text she sent for the right
answer, and it confirms that she wanted the lamb. No kiss. His