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scary place where nothing ever works out because of various

injustices or inequalities. Years of thinking that life is out of

your control cannot be changed in a day. Proclaiming you

want all the money in the world and all the happy experiences

you can handle, does not erase the concept of what your life

has been built on. The thought that things won’t happen in

your favor is dominant; when things actually work out, that

becomes the exception. You feel happy, you give thanks, you

praise, you do all of these things because you don’t expect

“good fortune” to happen normally. Good things are called

blessings, miracles, luck, when in fact if your mind were truly

positive, everything from setbacks to achievements would be

seen as beneficial because they are all moving you in the same

direction—forward!

Think of the time you achieved something remarkable.

You looked back to see what you did leading up to that

moment which could reveal a reason you deserved to win. You

received extra money and pointed to lending money to a friend

as the reason it came back to you twofold. You get a

promotion at work, and you pointed to how you didn’t break

when your employer was getting on your nerves, and give

thanks because your sacrifice has finally paid off. Your mind is

making up bullshit stories to explain abundance. You can’t

even accept victory without needing to make up an excuse for

it. I repeat, in your mind winning is an exception, not a

standard. When you’re expecting good news or going out for a

job, what do you actually think? You feel nervousness, but

what do you think? The words “I hope…I pray…I wish…If

I’m lucky…” pop into your head. Maybe you wear a lucky

charm or look to the sky and ask “please.” Why? Because you

don’t see the world as a giving tree, you see it as a roulette

table.

If your conscious self truly thought in a winning way or

a forward direction, then why would your mind speak words

that denote uncertainty? “Because you never know. I don’t

want to get my hopes up, assume, and then be disappointed

when it doesn’t happen.” That’s the fact I need you to grasp.

You hope for success, but your deepest thought is not success;

it’s fear. The fear of not getting what you want has created the

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