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In terms of your own friends or family having something

to say; lead by example. Don’t leave it in his hands to go

confront them, and don’t rush to take a side of someone new

over someone old. Get to the bottom by communicating. The

entire process of finding love was about being fearless, and in

friendship, you must behave with the same courage. You don’t

know why your mother gives your boyfriend mean stares, why

your brother makes smart comments, or why your best friend

is telling people your man was flirting with her, but you need

to go to those sources and inquire about what’s actually going

on. You know your family and you know your friends, you

know who has an attitude, who exaggerates, who never lies,

and who lies all the time. How you both react to outside

sources, that you care about but who test you, will tell you

how strong your bond has become. This isn’t drama that will

ruin your perfect world, it’s a revelation that there are things

which must be corrected if you are to stay together. If you

can’t stand up to a person’s family now, you won’t do it later,

and you will end up miserable. If you can’t stand up to your

own family or are afraid that you will be seen as taking sides,

then you will make the person that wants to be with you

miserable. Not all family or friend issues can be patched up,

but they can be carved out so you can identify the problem,

and make sure that whoever it is, will never interfere with your

happiness.

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