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Men Don’t Love Women Like You
Chapter 25:
He’s Not a Victim –
How to Stop Boyfriend
Manipulation
Placing blame is more effective than saying “sorry.” As a
relationship gets deeper, women tend to become weaker. Love
creates trust, trust leads to vulnerability, vulnerability exposes
you to manipulation. The point of dating like a Spartan was to
sniff out manipulators who were after sex, trying to use you
financially, or attempting to get comfortable with you with no
intention of staying with you once he used you up. Another
type of manipulation comes during the relationship stage,
False Victimization. It will be used by men who love you, not
to hurt you, but to get their way and maintain control. As
discussed in the previous chapter, men can and will hide all
forms of frustration and depression. There are others that
won’t hide their pain, but use it for sympathy or exploitation.
Knowing that women rush in to save men, these males create
false grenades for you to fall on. Boyfriend Manipulation
preys on your emotions to hijack your brain and gain the upper
hand throughout the relationship. You can’t yell at him
because you know how that hurts his feelings. You can’t bring
up his spoiled behavior because you know he has Mommy
Issues. You can’t bring up his financial situation because you
know he feels discriminated against at work. You can’t even
talk about his weak sex game needing work, because his ex
cheated on him, and that will put ideas in his head. These
boyfriends may have started off great, but once they find out
that you are willing to put up with their bullshit to spare their