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most success, and unlike average females, love is not what he
includes in that success box. You’ve seen this before, a man is
confident that he can find a new woman, it’s career or
financial opportunity which he fears he will never get another
shot at. When a guy moves to the beat of his own drum
instinctively but gets in a relationship with you, that doesn’t
mean he will settle down for you. Suddenly he says, “Hey, I
got a job offer, if it goes through I’m leaving.” It’s not
something you can put your foot down and stop. Arguing that
if he truly loves you he would stay, will get you dumped. It
will always be his career over you. Which brings up the heart
of this problem, follow your dreams or follow your heart?
There are women who don’t have any goals besides
being married and having children; a girl relocating for love is
as common as a blue sky. A Spartan always puts her goals
and interests ahead of a relationship. There may be a need
to compromise at times, but you must weigh the cost. Can you
do what you love in the same place as him? Can you have as
many children as he wants to have, and still follow your
dreams? Instead of waiting to see what your boyfriend wakes
up one morning and decides is your future, decide for yourself
what this relationship, or any future relationship, is worth
sacrificing. He’s a boyfriend, not a husband, your loyalty to
his life is misplaced if you think following behind him means
he will appreciate it and reward you. I’ve met more women
who moved and ended up getting left, than those that moved
and it worked out. A man will try to sell you on moving with
him. He’s afraid, he wants companionship, but the moment he
becomes comfortable in that city, will he need you?
What if his move can lead to you making an even bigger
move? That’s called an opportunity, so take it! If it’s about
your life, not playing the wife, then you’re ahead of the curve
because you are already mentally prepared to cut him off and
still thrive in your new location. I worked with this producer
whose girlfriend left him a month after coming to Los
Angeles, she was every bitch in the world when telling me the
story, but in my mind, she was smart. Clearly she came for the
opportunity, not the man, and when she realized the
relationship would not work, she quickly dumped him because