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off your body shape, then to have a man reject you as if that’s
nothing to him, creates further trauma and widens your
insecurity. To have a guy stop calling you and then pop up
with a girl who has a body that you won’t ever develop
naturally, sends your self-esteem crashing down. Women love
to over-think, and when rejection happens the first culprit is
always, “he didn’t like the way I look.” You project your
internal feelings onto other people when things don’t go your
way, and the most conscious source of imperfection remains
physical looks.
You’re hoping that no man sees past your paper-thin
confidence, that a guy likes enough of one thing on your body
that he doesn’t notice those other physical hang-ups that you
see as flaws. The moment it doesn’t work out you don’t ask
yourself, “Did our personalities connect in a real way? Was the
conversation intriguing? Did I exude confidence?” You go
back to how you look because all the shit you talk about being
sexy is lip service. Fake Pretty is tied to male validation; it’s
an idea that he will want you because you look a certain
way. When you don’t get the results you wanted, you pile on
more superficial solutions, as if you can somehow become too
pretty to be passed up or rejected.
There is no such thing as too pretty to lose! You can’t
build your confidence around your external presentation; it has
to be based on internal beauty. Defensively you can bring up
friends or associates who you see winning in terms of men,
and say, “That bitch is dumb and boring. You can’t tell me it
wasn’t her looks that lead to her success!” That’s the typical
response. You don’t know what a particular man is looking for
or the conversations that are held in private that makes a
woman you see as just a body, a must-have to that man. You’re
assuming that your personality is greater than her personality,
but you can’t measure her intangibles. You’re not getting the
same results as her, so you defensively point to perceived
advantages such as her looks or the sex she’s giving up. Stop
trying to make yourself feel better by condemning others
through assumptions, and let’s be realistic; looks do not lead to
long-term success with men. Yes, there can be shallow bias in
terms of getting attention easier, but in the larger picture, no