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through a depression, there aren’t Ah-ha moments. You slowly
break apart, and by the time you realize that he’s now playing
by his own rules, you are too far away to reach him.
To be a “good girlfriend,” means you pay attention to
your partner, you stand up to mistreatment, you communicate
without fear, and you curtail your own bad behavior no matter
how agitated you become. There are women who become
pushovers in a relationship because they fear losing this great
once in a lifetime man, so they let him get away with murder.
There are also women who are bullies. They see that a man
lets them do whatever, so they push his buttons to bring that
“real man” fire out of him. Both of these personalities lead to
huge blowups. A pushover is always going to cry about
neglect, stress that her man doesn’t appreciate her, threaten to
leave, then repeat the cycle after he apologizes. A bullish
woman will make a man react like a victim, with his own
ultimatums about how he’s leaving because he can’t take her
controlling attitude or bi-polar behavior. A woman like this
will apologize, cry for forgiveness, and pull the man back,
only to do the same thing when she feels bored or
unchallenged. You shouldn’t be a pussy that lets a man run
over you, nor should you be in the habit of committing to men
who you can manipulate and push around. The dating stage
was meant to empower you, as well as net you a partner with a
backbone, not some simp you could settle for, kick around,
and then cry, “come back, I really do love you.” That’s not
what a Spartan does.
Beyond those extremes, there is a more common flaw,
and we call her pride. The downfall of a woman in a
relationship can be traced to an obsessive need to make it
work, not for love, but to prove herself. Red flags aren’t
missed, they are picked up and thrown under the rug because
you can’t afford to have another failed relationship. Your
parents, your friends, your co-workers, even the folks on the
internet, can’t see you go through yet another man who
doesn’t work out. After talking all that sugary shit about how
great he is, how he treats you, and acting as if you knew
everything about what makes a relationship work; how will it
look to be single again?