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determine. Remember you’re not looking to be his girl; he’s
looking to be your guy. Therefore, his interests have to line up
or why date him?
Another problem, besides being so nervous that you
can’t create real conversation, is not knowing when to chill out
and give each other a break. Let’s say that you are fun to talk
to and he loved your marathon phone conversation. Don’t
follow up by thinking that you’re supposed to talk throughout
the day or text throughout the day going forward. Have a life
outside of talking to this one man. You like him and he likes
you, but when you won’t give him a breather to go live your
life, you smother him. The ironic thing is that men don’t mind
this when you’re first getting to know each other, they will
happily let you over communicate. What man is going to tell
you, “Baby, you’re texting me too much, chill,” and still get a
second date or a first nut? Just because a man isn’t objecting
doesn’t mean he’s enjoying that kind of attention.
Clingy is never cute. A man will get sick of you without
even knowing it. Once a guy loses his taste for you, he will
figure out ways to avoid you, until he can see you in person
aka try for sex. While you were a steak with lobster, days upon
days of eating that has made you as special as meatloaf. Allow
him to miss you, to want you, to chase you! You should be
dating other men. You should be talking to your friends. You
should have hobbies outside of work. “…but all I think about
is him,” no shit, because all you have is him, but he’s not
yours yet! The reason typical women struggle with over
communicating is that their own lives are boring. Go to work
or school, come home, play on the internet, watch a show,
repeat. Your Amazon wishlist is overflowing, but your social
life is empty as fuck. Right now, even with all the stuff you
distract yourself with, how many times do you say, “I’m
bored!” per week? If you are bored, that means you are boring!
Men pick up on this vibe, they know it’s not simply you
having a crush based on how good things are going, he knows
you don’t have a life outside of him. The moment you show a
man that you want him more than he wants you, It’s game
over. If you can’t pace yourself during the first week or two,