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answer that question quickly and with emotion because he has

a friend in mind who he would ride for. Most men will ride for

their brothers even if the girl he’s cheating on is his own

cousin because males truly do belong to a fraternity of loyalty.

That’s just the set-up. From there you can use the example of

his friend cheating to ask indirect questions about his own

thoughts on the subject that won’t make him seem like a

villain.

In Cali’s story, we saw her play Devil’s Advocate, and

now you can do the same thing. “If my brother wanted me to

cover for him, I would, fuck those hos.” This gives him bait

either to go with the typical male response or to show you

something deeper. A man may never go along with covering

for someone because his dad cheated on his mother. He may

have been cheated on, and while he may not confess this, his

mentality may be “fuck anyone that cheats,” because he knows

personally how it hurts. Those responses start to establish a

morality based on something deeper than just sex being sex or

a random opinion. If he uses words that point to him thinking

about home and family being ruined or the personal pain, then

he is a man who sees the bigger picture. That shows his

loyalty. In the end, you won’t know if he will or won’t down

the line, but in terms of this pre-relationship, you do prove that

two-timing isn’t a part of his current nature.

A Secure Man = Bitter Test: This may be the easiest thing to

expose because men don’t hide resentment. When you are

dating, you need a partner who isn’t going to be intimidated by

your Spartan nature. You make your own money, can pay your

own bills, men love that part. However, when you are making

more, have more, or come off as smarter than he is, that can

cause drama. It’s the 21st century but certain men still love to

keep women down to make themselves feel bigger. Don’t wait

until he starts putting you down after you’re together; poke

him to see if he has that Ike Turner inside of him now. I

watched a documentary on the Ku Klux Klan, and one

historian noted that the poor whites were more driven by their

own lowly status than racism. They were failures and needed

someone to be an outlet for their self-hate. Men who are

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