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chicks in and out of my mother’s house, and my mother put on
a nice front for all of them. A few of them, she would later say,
“I really liked her,” others she would roll her eyes at. Didn’t
matter. You don’t need pleasantries that gas you up as if you’re
different because you’re not at this point. Even when a man
says, “I never bring women home,” don’t flatter yourself…
I’ve said that lie too.
Many relationship problems stem from the family not
liking the girlfriend, so you may think this is a necessity to
weed out if he’s a mama’s boy, a product of a dysfunctional
family, or anything else that would pop up later on. Trust that
the deep family dirt will not come out at this stage. When you
become a man’s legit girlfriend, his family will then be
authentic. They will not waste time hating you at this “she’s
just another ho” stage. If he offers for you to meet his folks,
decline. If it’s a wedding or a gathering in his honor, go
because it’s not a direct introduction where you’re made to be
the guest of honor. If you can, hold off on meeting family until
he wins that spot, as this is something you will need to vet as
an official girlfriend.
Spending The Night: In a true roster, you will have 2-4 men,
however, many you can fit into your week and for as long they
remain consistent in trying to win the top spot. By the time
you get into deep dating, you should have exposed most of
these guys. Meaning that no man should be on your roster for
more than two months. If it’s been 60 days, and you’re not
ready to upgrade a man to boyfriend status, cut him off.
Not by being nice because you have no real reason, but by
being real, “it’s not working!” You can never be afraid to hurt
feelings and cut a man off, don’t leave guys dangling on your
team, it will come back to bite you. Keep your ship tight. Any
woman with a roster of more than five men is “talking” not
dating, and she’s also wasting her time because you should
always be in the process of dropping a man who isn’t working
out and picking up a new guy. These Spartan steps are set up
to filter 90% of the men you meet that will waste your time.
Look at your roster, and if it’s too big, you aren’t vetting
properly. I bring this up because spending the night is a huge