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need to see you as soon as possible, this chemistry is crazy.” It

wasn’t chemistry it was my dick. To her, it was a guy actually

being blown away enough to want to skip work and see her,

and that made her feel like hot shit. It wasn’t so much my

game; it was her ego that led her to meet up with me the next

day. No date, no real recon on me, but real sex. Be smarter.

Don’t let a man lullaby you with phone boning before you go

on an actual date. In terms of the questions you ask and the

answers you get, they won’t all be picture perfect like

Stephen’s responses. You may meet a man who may not have

a great job or doesn’t want to tell you what he does. It’s very

important to know these things before you go on a date, so

don’t be afraid to press. No woman should agree to meet out in

public with “Tavon who does a bit of everything.” If your

friend were to try to file a missing person’s report, it’s better

that she knows that you were going out with Tavon who

worked at General Motors. “I get money” or “I work for my

Uncle,” isn’t a respectable response. Position—does he have

one? Not all men will be truthful, but at least, do your part.

You may get a man who has children. You have to

decide if that is a deal breaker for you right then and there. My

friend told me how she dated a guy who met all her

qualifications and then some, but he had one drawback, a

young child. He looked so good that she revamped her views

on men with kids like, “I’ll play step mom, he’s that fine!”

After weeks of dating, she realized that it was always going to

be a deal breaker. Her lust for him didn’t change the fact that

she was not about the, “My man has kids by other women,”

life. She wasted weeks, when she should have kept it real the

moment he said he had a son. It’s okay to have selfish

standards, and it’s even better to own up to them starting out

on Day 0. If you front for a man and lie to yourself to make

him work, it will eventually catch up to you, causing you to

back out after you put in this work. Be honest with yourself!

What if you are the one with children and he does his

own recon? In Solving Single, I talked about dating with

children, and I stand by the notion that you don’t have to

volunteer that information until he earns a first date. However,

it’s never good to start out with a lie if directly asked. If he

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