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I fucked up,” that clearly show that the old ways will always

be the wrong way.

Don’t Wait On Him to Reach Out

You wake up, check your phone… nothing. You try to brush it

off, but an hour later your phone is back in your hand, this

time, you’re growing angry. That’s pride fucking with you. “If

a man wants you he’ll rush after you,” that’s the bullshit

women pile up and lean on so they can justify their fear. You

want a man to talk to you first, call first, and then call after a

date so you can be sure that he likes you. For you to move first

comes with the risk of being rejected. You must not hide from

rejection, you must run towards it because the fear of the

unknown is why your thoughts keep you worked up, nervous,

and doubtful. It’s better to reach out and get curved, then to sit

around for days hoping that he actually calls. Take things into

your own hands, because when you do reach out first you

exercise total control.

This is the 21st century and men think the same way as

women in terms of coming off as thirsty. He took you out, fed

your ass, and shared his life story with you. For him to pop up

with a morning text, an afternoon call, or even an email makes

him consider, “Damn she’s going to think I’m some kind of

loser that has nothing better to do but hound her.” When a

woman is too prideful to call and a man is playing it cool

waiting at least 24 hours to reach out because he read to do so

in some Pick Up Artist book, then you ruin the momentum. In

a perfect world, a man will hit you up after a date just to check

in because you’re on his mind and he wants to keep it going.

However, you have to prepare for the new age man who may

be unsure if reaching out is something you will respect or see

as simp activity. Don’t over think this. He passed your test, the

date was great, so let him know that it’s okay to hit you up by

hitting him up first. The goal is to get on the phone and keep

the conversation going so you can learn even more about his

personality when he’s not face to face with you. Your goal is

not to be some, “If he wants me he knows my number,” young

ass pride demon.

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