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The Second Date Set Up
Similar to Ho Tactics, you have to set the second date yourself
in terms of where you want to go and how you want him to
entertain you. This means you choose the activity, the place,
and the day. This isn’t about exposing how much money he
has, this is about exposing your lifestyle to see if he can keep
up. The first date was merely an interview; the second date is a
day on the job to see if he fits into your world. Before we get
to the actual date, you have to complete the setup mission. So
far, you’ve given him good conversation, learned even more
about his character, and given him glimpses of yours. You
made yourself a part of his daily life, without being annoying.
You successfully trained this man to move at your pace by
declining his offers of pop-up dates or spontaneous meet-ups.
Finally, you showed him that you don’t need to talk to him
every day, but he does. You, my Queen, are firmly in the
driver’s seat by this point.
Now it’s time to research where you want to drive this
man romantically. Do you want to go on another dinner date,
this time at a more expensive place to show him that this is the
way you expect to roll? Do you hit up a bowling alley and see
how he reacts to your competitive side? Maybe you want to go
to a stage show and dress up to see if he can hit the elegant
switch. Maybe you want to go to a movie, grab a quick bite,
and fuck him to get it out of the way, so sex isn’t the elephant
in the room going forward…just testing. This is the second
phase of your vetting process, the part where you put his
words into action. This means the second date will serve as a
test to see if this man can be a real part of your life socially.
Some women only live to hang with their boyfriends. They go
where he wants to go, and becomes interested in what he’s
interested in because their own passions in life may seem
foolish and she doesn’t want to bore him. There are too many,
“I don’t care, what do you want to do, bae” girls and not
enough grown women who step up and promote their interests
in a real way. Being that Cool Girl that can watch the game,
but doesn’t understand it, or who trails behind him to tacky
restaurants when she prefers to fine dine because at least it’s
going somewhere, is pathetic. Women like that will forever