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Getting Cut

Let’s step back and go an alternate route. After the second

date, Stephen doesn’t ask Cali out, he instead asks her to come

over. Cali isn’t afraid to come over because she’s not worried

about having sex before she’s ready. The point is that the first

two dates were training this man to pay attention, and here he

is just trying to fuck or simply being lazy by not following the

path that was laid out over the last two weeks. This isn’t about

money; this is about value. I make a big deal out of dates

because it is the only act that a man can do to prove effort.

Not the way he talks to you, not how often he calls you, but

how he tries to court you! Consistently trying to see you in

order to get access to sex, is lust. Consistently trying to see

you just because he enjoys your company, is passion. Don’t

confuse the two! Stephen is only concerned with getting Cali

alone, not to talk, but so he can get his dick wet. A Spartan

knows a man will always want sex, but a man who doesn’t get

the hint that she is not typical and keeps going full speed with

his dick leading him, has failed. As in the last example, if he

would have made a date suggestion, she may have canceled

and let him come over to her place. Why? Because his

intentions showed he knew how to treat her. This isn’t a trick

to get men caught up, it’s evidence of his true feelings on how

you should be treated. If he doesn’t offer a proper third date

after going through two great dates, he’s not the one. If he

can’t do this simple step to make the team, then he will never

do enough to become a real boyfriend. Cut him.

In terms of cutting a man off who hasn’t done anything

horrible, how do you go about it in a nice way? Do you block

his number and delete him from social media? Call him and

say, “Sorry it’s not working but you’re great,” or maybe act

like a boy and simply stop responding to calls? Fuck being

nice! I don’t care how nervous or shy confrontation makes you

feel. You have to Spartan Up and treat this guy like you would

want to be treated. If a man didn’t want to date any longer,

would you want him to ignore you or tell you straight up so

you’re not left wondering what went wrong? You would want

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