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Stephen, is he the type of man that only wants to see her in

person because he thinks that after the first date he may get

some, or is he really interested in continuing to talk and learn

more about her life? Stephen says he will call and that he’s not

asking any other girl out on a date. Cali responds back with

one of her prettiest selfies and a kiss emoji. All women should

have a default, “I’m pretty as hell,” picture (not a nude) on

their phones to break out for a new man. Send him something

that wasn’t posted to Instagram or any other social media,

because if a man happens to follow your page and sees it, he’ll

just think, “This ho is for everybody.” Cali sends an exclusive

picture she’s been sitting on, a small reward for Stephen

reaching out first.

The aim for the pre-date was specific: Let him know you

are a Dater, not a Come Over & Chill or Phone Bone type of

girl. The aim for the date was specific: Who is this man

beyond the bullshit mask men wear and do I like him? You set

your goal and achieved your goal. It would make zero sense to

slip into this “it’s whatever” attitude now that he made it past

the first date stage. What I’ve noticed in the advice I’ve given

over the years is that I will find a woman who is a great

student in terms of the pre-date game. She will pull men as if

it’s nothing, get dates, and have a great first date, only to say,

“I’ve won, now let me do everything wrong!”

Those relationships where you start to text all day or talk

all night are not the prize. You will fall into being lazy and

stop researching his character. By next weekend, he’s over at

your crib with a bottle of Ciroc, and your legs are open

because you feel as if you did all the work that was required to

be smart. Negative! The work has just started. A second date

isn’t guaranteed yet; Stephen still has to keep climbing. Cali

has to be sure that Stephen actually has time to be something

more than casual; that the personality displayed on the date is

actually who he is even when they are not face to face, and

finally that she isn’t made to compete for his time. Things like,

“Does he think I’m Wifey or Pussy,” doesn’t concern Cali,

she’s a fucking Spartan she knows she’s not Pussy and hasn’t

been so for a very long time. If Stephen is playing a good

game to fuck, it will be obvious over this next week. Pussy

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