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next thing you know, he’s not reaching for a condom, and in
the moment of that “you know I’m going to marry you and
take care of you” passion, you give in. Oops pregnant. He may
be the type who talks about it with you openly and convinces
you to get off birth control. This is the comedy of, “let’s see
what happens” as if you don’t know what happens when
sperm fertilizes an egg. One girl told me that her boyfriend’s
sales pitch was, “Let’s have sex normally, and if nothing
happens in two months, get back on it. But if you get pregnant
that’s God’s way of telling us it was meant to be.” She got
pregnant, and they never got married or even stayed together!
That’s what happens when you pressure yourself to do what
other people want under the cover of fate. You determine your
destiny, and when you allow yourself to be led, you give your
power to that person. Your true self won’t stop you from
transferring your power, but the universe will play out in a
way that tells you that you fucked up! Be a Queen Regnant not
a Queen Consort. No matter if he has Lil Wayne level baby
fever or if you saw a chubby kid in the store that lit your
maternal fire, know your goals and put them first.
If you want to be married before you have a child, be
married. If you want to be established before you have a child,
be established. If you want to wait for any reason before
becoming a mother, then there should be no pressure that
makes you shortchange your ambitions. The pressure of men,
the pressure of time, the pressure of other people reminding
you that even if you get married, it’s not guaranteed that you
will stay together. What are those? They are doubting forces,
causing you to go in a direction you aren’t 100% sure about.
As a Spartan, you know what you want, and you know that to
compromise yourself for the benefit of others or to rush
because you’re on a time clock, points to fear! You may never
be shit in life, so you may as well have this baby now with a
guy that wants you. That is negativity which points to you
needing to bend your rules because you fear failure. You will
get what you want and you must not listen to this shit about,
“you know you’re getting older,” or “Let’s start a family, you
know I love you.” Never settle for anything less than the
vision you keep in your head! You have the power to tell
him, “no.” You have the power to assure yourself that it will