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Nevertheless, typical women have this idea that they’re

the only ones doing it big. This is the root of their false

confidence. They didn’t stop making successful women when

they made you, and men know it. Let’s stick with the theme of

women who come from humble beginnings and reach some

form of middle-class success. Who do they have to compare

themselves to in terms of, “Why would a man pick her over

me?” A woman who grew up in a working-class family in

Flint, Michigan isn’t comparing herself to the daughter of a

CEO who grew up in Ann Arbor. That wouldn’t boost her ego,

so she compares herself to those females who originated from

the same class and background, to point out her greatness.

Let’s pretend that most of the girls who you have known

since childhood only did some college or went to a trade

school, but you have a degree, that makes you better. That

popular girl from high school who you follow on Facebook

now has two kids and put on weight, you look better than you

did in high school, that makes you better. Those basic bitches

on social media who stunt with champagne bottles in the club

and blow income tax money on designer bags, you know them

in real life. Those birds work part-time and still live with

parents or roommates; you have year-round money and your

own place, that makes you better. You can sit there and pretend

to be humble, and say all the polite things, but the fact is that

when asked what makes you better for a man than another

woman, you reach for those comparisons. Maybe you have

sorority sisters or college roommates who are doing it at your

level or higher, but for the most part, those struggling chicks

that you are related to, associate with, or constantly hear

gossip about, are the women you point to before pointing to

yourself. It isn’t that CEO’s daughter, who just became the

youngest executive at her company, you are referring to when

you claim to be unique and rare. Your special is only special

because you are comparing yourself to the basic women

around you, never the most exceptional ones.

Here is what you fail to realize when you let your ego

run wild. Men aren’t dating from the pool of your friends or

associates; they date from an entire sea of women, which is not

limited to your background or your environment. Black men,

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