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water from in terms of a strong female role model could be
tainted. Your mother may sit and give you her opinion on men,
tell you the mistakes she made, but is she truly put together or
just playing that role?
One woman told me that her mother gives the best
advice. I asked her to specify, what the best advice she
received was, so I could understand why a woman whose
mother gives perfect advice was still struggling. When this
woman had her wedding called off, her mother told her,
“Everything’s going to be alright, he just wasn’t your soul
mate.” Think about that. Mom told her that everything was
going to be all right because of…what exactly? Mothers, like
clergy, are in the habit of just telling you it will be okay, not
based on a real reason, but because it sounds nice and positive.
Fuck that! It’s all ego stroking that keeps you stagnant.
You are special because you’re her daughter. Your time
is going to come because you’re her daughter…that’s ego.
“God has you, have faith,” is the go-to saying for most, but
that is not sage wisdom that helps you get to the root of your
unhappiness. Again, I ask you to look at your mother like any
other woman and ask if she’s truly Obi-Wan Kenobi or just
another chick that had a kid and is learning on the job with
mixed results. A woman who refuses to divorce a loser can be
a great mother in terms of nurturing, but that doesn’t mean she
has any real answers. A woman who divorced her husband and
has since taken up with a new man who’s just as much as a
bum, can be a great mother in terms of supporting your dreams
and goals, doesn’t mean her opinions of your life choices
aren’t influenced by her own jaded view of life. A single
mother who raised you alone can give you great advice on
how to deal with the men she fell for but does she actually
know how to advise when a man is from the new school and
doesn’t play by that 20th century rulebook?
Alternatively, females compete with other females, and
mothers do compete with daughters. Just because she’s
supposed to be there for you, doesn’t mean she’s not capable
of sabotaging you at the same time. Being your mother doesn’t
make her enlightened or even good at telling you how to live.