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Always remember to have a time set and agreed upon.
Too many people leave it open ended and miscommunication
occurs because you didn’t check to see if he was free when
you were free. Two missed calls later and it all falls apart
because you think he’s playing games when, in reality, it’s on
you for not specifying the plan. That may sound like doing too
much, but too much of what, winning? Get what you want,
and take control while doing it so there is no room for error. If
he doesn’t pick up, leave a message. It’s not that serious where
you text after you call him like a psycho or flip out with an
attitude because he wasn’t around when he said he would be
free. Remember, ego and pride are weak emotions. Let go of
attitude and anxiety, shoot your shot, and allow it to play out
patiently. Alternatively, if the man calls you without texting
first—good! This means you don’t have to train him. You may
feel as if you need time to get your mind right and your goal
visualized. Spartans don’t run, they improvise. Realize that
any man you meet could call in two hours or in two days.
Know what you want to say in case of either situation. A
superior warrior always expects the unexpected.
The same rules apply regardless of who does the calling:
Put him at ease. Recon. Date bait.
The initial date setting call shouldn’t last more than
thirty minutes at most. If you find yourself on the phone
laughing and carrying on, snatch yourself away because you’re
doing too much. The point is to find out enough to know that
he’s not some creep, that he’s employed, and that he’s sane
enough to meet in public. There is no need for a long
conversation at this stage, but you won’t be able to help it if
you click. If the two of you are hitting it off neither will want
to get off the phone, but you have to exit in 30 minutes or less.
Men have their own game plan; they get in your ear, flirt, put
you at ease, and then get real familiar.
Here’s where that has benefited me. By the time I once
got off a three-hour phone conversation with this girl I met the
day before, we had bonded so much that all I had to say is, “I