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Men Don’t Love Women Like You
Chapter 22:
Do You Know How to Be a
Girlfriend
“He needs to treat me right or let me go!” – Basica Alba
In sports, the consensus is that winning a title is harder than
defending that title. In relationships, making a commitment is
much easier than maintaining that commitment. No matter
how confident you are in your ability to love a person through
thick and thin, there is no cure for growing apart. Let me
define what growing apart means. It isn’t being mad at each
other for a few days or a week, and feeling that you should just
end it. That’s basic anger. You are emotional and annoyed, so
your mind goes off to dark places, but it’s nothing cooling off
won’t rectify. To grow apart means that a person stops caring,
stops investing, and begins to distance themselves emotionally.
A man can grow apart from you while sleeping in the same
bed. It’s not the physical space, it’s the feeling that you no
longer connect mentally. The vast majority of relationships
that are brought to me, the man has grown apart, and the
woman missed the red flags months ago that it was happening.
They still had sex, they still had fun, but the signs were there.
He didn’t talk as much, he didn’t share as much, he didn’t
have as much patience…these small character changes stand
out, but they get ignored. Unlike a man cheating or going