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Mission: How Does He Talk Around
Others
When you’re on the phone late at night sweet talking each
other, a man isn’t going to offend you or talk down to you.
Maybe there will be a debate on a topic that you two disagree
on that may show his elitist or narcissistic side, but usually
during the first week, a man will reframe from getting on a
soapbox about a touchy subject. In terms of jokes, a man who
is courting you will also keep those above the belt. Girls can
be sensitive, calling a woman teasing names like, “genius”
after she says something stupid. Making fun of an accent or
how she pronounced a word. Throwing innocent shade at
something physical like her big ears, hairstyle, or nose shape,
even as a joke can ruin a man’s shot. Guys stay away from
things that can be taken the wrong way, but it only lasts until
they become comfortable. This is why deep conversations
followed by the second date works so well because you put
him at ease sooner and lessen his filter so the real him comes
through in terms of how he talks to you in public.
One woman told me how a guy she was seeing for
months got comfortable and called her “Thunders” a name that
referred to the size of her thighs. I saw it as a cute joke, but she
took it to heart due to her history with men verbally bashing
her weight. It wasn’t until they were at one of her family
gatherings that he called her Thunders in front of her mom
who started to laugh. What could have been a quick, “Don’t
say that to me, please, I’m sensitive about that,” became a
huge blowup. They should have crossed that bridge during the
first few weeks. If they were on a date, he would have called
her Thunders, but they didn’t date properly nor bond in a way
that uncovered his jokey persona. All they did was house date
and phone bone. Even after knowing him for two months, he
was still a stranger. When you’re out and around more people
than the waiter or the bartender you hear a man’s thoughts on
society, but you also experience his reactions to you in terms
of his temper, jealousy, or humor.
Let’s say that you want to go to a Paint and Sip, one of
those events where you drink wine and paint pictures. The