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#3 You Overthink the Process
What do you say to make him think highly of you? What do
you wear so he finds you sexy? What topics do you talk about
to make him see you as the wifey type? Should you spend
your own money to show him that you bring something to the
table besides looks? YAWN! It’s time to grow the fuck up and
stop dating like a child. You are a Queen. Queens don’t
audition to be someone’s girlfriend; they are the ones holding
the audition. Your past life was based on living up to the
opinion of men, which then created a fear of rejection. Your
pre-Spartan mind was full of nervous energy, because “What if
he doesn’t like me,” was your dominant thought. Your pre-
Spartan mouth opened and all you could say were basic words
and make obvious observations. You tried to come off as witty,
but all you could muster was sassy. It’s cute when a 13-yearold
girl is talking smart mouthed and giving off sass because
it’s all she knows how to do at that age. For a grown ass
woman to sit across from a grown ass man, and be so shy and
nervous that all she can do to show her wit is backtalk, roll
eyes, and get smart is pathetic!
Awkward women aren’t awkward around their best
friends, which means they aren’t really awkward by nature.
The awkwardness stems from being in a situation where you
are overwhelmed by your own nerves and self-consciousness.
You act anxious, come off as goofy, uninteresting, and corny
because you aren’t as relaxed around attractive men. Being
awkward isn’t part of your DNA, it’s part of your WBW—
Weak Bitch Ways. A Spartan is never awkward because there
isn’t a man that can sit across from her and intimidate the most
powerful force on earth. Wonder Woman doesn’t lower her
head around Superman, she stares him in the fucking eyes
because HE is not greater than SHE.
Over thinking is the result of wanting someone to want
you and trying to figure out ways to get that across before you
blow your opportunity. Fuck that. A Spartan is the prize,
therefore, the man becomes the one in the hot seat, trying to
figure out how to make you laugh, make you listen, keep your
attention, and earn another date. Why should he get access to
your Friday night? Why should he get the pleasure of spending