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incredible. Do not think of makeup as hiding. If you have bags

under your eyes that you hate or scars that take your own

opinion down a notch, cover it! If that gets you mentally where

you need to be on this date, use it because your own mind is

where the battle takes place. However, don’t use makeup as a

crutch. If you’re only covering things for fear of a man’s

opinion knowing that your blemishes don’t bother you or that

your nose being contoured doesn’t make you feel any

different, then you’re placating. If you are comfortable in your

skin then show up without the concealer because if you love it,

fuck what he thinks. This is you 24-7, so it is better that he

sees it now, than be surprised later. The point is to be armed

for that first date with a look that makes you as confident as

possible, but that real confidence should already be in place.

Date Goal: Protect Your Privacy

Rebuttal: I Want Him to Pick Me Up

A big rule my female friend has is, “No man is seeing my crib,

I don’t know if he’s crazy yet.” That’s a great rule because

access to someone’s home can lead to problems if the date

doesn’t go well and your suitor isn’t mentally stable. I’m not

talking just in terms of violence but in terms of stalking, which

happens often when a man won’t get the hint. If you have a

car, it’s better to meet up at the location. Spending money on

gas is a small price to pay for privacy. Someone popping up on

you because you block them after the first or second date is not

a situation that I want any woman to experience. Some of you

live in cities where you don’t need cars to get to work; others

don’t have vehicles in the budget. Don’t feel ashamed if you

do not have a car. Cali’s example shows you how easy it is to

date minus wheels. A lot of dating anxiety comes from women

not feeling as if they are on a level where a man would want

them in terms of money and possession. A man won’t care if

you don’t have a car unless he’s a bum without his own

vehicle looking to get rides or a cheapskate who doesn’t want

to spend his gas money. Don’t let insecurities force you to

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