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the second date, introduces him to deeper aspects of your life.

Your friend or friends will show you how he is in mixed

company. It’s not about them liking him or approving, fuck

their approval; you’re a Spartan you decide on your own.

What it does is give you a chance to observe his raw

personality. Similar to exposing a man as a narcissist or the

jealous type, the things he says in mix company may reveal

more than he would ever reveal one on one.

In terms of his own friends, don’t be the basic bitch that

moans, “So when am I going to meet your friends?” That

sounds insecure, as if you don’t trust he has buds outside of

other women or guys he chases ass with. Allow him to offer. If

he doesn’t you can suggest things like, “The music festival is

this weekend would any of your friends want to go?” or “If

you guys want to watch the game over at my place, I don’t

mind, it’ll save you money on drinks.” Listen to who his

friends are personality wise and offer something based around

that. If they’re into sports, that’s an easy sports bar or in home

meet up. If they’re into music, mention a concert. If they’re

single, maybe a group club night so they don’t feel as if they

have to behave themselves around you. Even something like a

Grammy or MTV Awards viewing party can be used to initiate

this meeting. It’s important to see a man around his boys

because the character could be night and day.

Meeting Family: Unlike meeting friends, meeting the family

isn’t something that you need to push for this early. He isn’t

your boyfriend, you are dating, so a man will be on his best

behavior when his family is around. Outside of nicknames and

old stories of when he was a kid, you won’t learn anything

about your guy from a visit to the family. A mother’s approval

of you isn’t needed when you don’t even know if you approve

of her son at this point. Too many women get sprung once they

visit a guy’s home, bond with the mom or sister, and feel as if

it’s a family she could thrive in. Mothers, Grandmothers,

Sisters, aren’t judges, they are women, filled with their own

animosity and bias opinions. If your guy is used to bringing

girls home, the women of his family will most likely be

desensitized and just play along. I was the king of parading

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