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This isn’t an argument where you wag a finger in his
face like, “Name one thing! Name one thing!” That’s not how
you prove your point. You need to look at the situation, then
prove your truth with evidence. Let’s say he’s calling you
mean because he’s sick, and you don’t have time to come over
and baby him. He ignores your call or says, “I’d do it for you,
selfish ass.” Remind him that while you know he’s not feeling
well; you have things you have to do first. If being responsible
is mean in his world, then so be it. You aren’t going to change
your life for any man and he needs to know that now, not later.
Men are like bullies, you stand up to them once, you
shut them down forever. You must be Spartan enough not to
give a fuck about how he takes it. The fear that he will leave
you, start talking to a woman who “gets” him, or any weak
thought which pops into your head, is counterproductive to
your mission. If a man wants to leave you because your
personality is too strong or you won’t kiss his ass and mommy
him, then let him leave! You are a Spartan, the same way you
found him, you can find one even better. By going through
such a pussy of a man, you learn how to spot this breed even
earlier during the screening stage. Men tend to blame women
in an act of reverse psychology meant to make their lives
easier. By pointing to you as having an attitude, being mean,
or not seeing things from his viewpoint, it stops you from
digging deeper into his behavior.
Is he a victim or is he like some dirty cop that gets
caught, and has to reframe the evidence to make it seem like
you were at fault? Know your behavior, know your flaws, and
know the difference between you being in the wrong versus a
man using your behavior as a motive for his dirt. A guy will
blame cheating on the fact that you went out for a night with
your friends. He will blame losing a job on you not being
around to talk to him about his stress. He will even blame not
calling you for a week on something you said that offended
him. All of these things are meant to put you back in check, to
let him get away with whatever sneaky shit he’s been doing,
and to send a message to you that this relationship is built on
his sensitivity. Do not walk on eggshells for any man, do not