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If Stephen can’t handle male associates coming up to
chat in public, or to give a hug, then this won’t work. Cali
goes out regularly and she’s a social woman that has various
associates. Men that used to date her will be out, men who she
friendzoned will be out, men who she fucked, and who still
want to fuck her, they will all be out on any given night.
Stephen will have to deal with that and not flip out, judge her,
or make snide comments. Cali isn’t a ho, but for an insecure
man, popularity with the opposite sex can be hard to deal with.
Stephen is about to show how secure he really is.
Cali asks her male employee friend if he can hook them
up with seats closer to the stage. The friend tells them to hold
on while he checks. Stephen hasn’t said anything at this point,
so Cali takes this moment to ask him what he thinks of the
decor. Stephen is still distracted by the other man hugging “his
bitch,” but says that it’s nice. Cali could tell Stephen who that
guy is and how she knows him, but it’s always, don’t ask don’t
tell. If Stephen is truly a big boy and is curious then he has to
ask himself, not sulk and act passively. Cali and Stephen are
taken to a seat closer. Cali once again hugs the employee as
thanks for the hookup. The friend tells them both to have a
good time and shakes Stephen’s hand with a smile.
Let’s pause. This is why you MUST take a man out to
familiar places when you’re dating because men will tell you
how they aren’t jealous all day when it’s only you, him, and
maybe a waiter. To go out with another man puts thoughts in
his head that he may not be able to hide. Right here we have
Stephen and Cali’s friend exchanging pleasantries, but what’s
under the surface? A dap and a smile to a rival man who
knows your girl could mean, “Good luck, brother, she’s a
tough one,” or “Damn, you tricking on a ho that I slept with on
a Chipotle budget.” Stephen has no way to know if he’s a fool
unless he asks Cali. Once they’re seated and comfortable,
Stephen man’s up and asks Cali who that rival male was. Cali
smiles internally, she is ecstatic that Stephen asked directly,
opposed to internalizing and fuming for the rest of the date.
Cali explains that he works at the coffee shop, and she would
come in every morning before she began working closer to the
Starbucks where they first met. Stephen states the obvious,