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#4 You Are in Love with Being in Love
Spartans do not look for love. To look for love points to a lack
of love internally, a need to fulfill something that’s missing by
finding someone to fill that void. Love is not a goal because
love is easily attained at the Spartan level. Every time you
wake up and look in that mirror, you are falling in love. Every
time you walk out into your world with your sun shining
down, you will know love. Many men will love you, but none
of their love will ever match the love you have for yourself.
This is important because heartbreak still exists in a primitive
form, even in Sparta. To break up with a man who loves you,
to lose a man who loves you, to find out a man has stopped
growing with you and no longer shares that same level of love
for you, that is enough to break a weak woman. A Spartan may
lose the love of another, but it never breaks her, for it is her
own self-love that fuels and strengthens her regardless of what
man comes or goes. A typical woman is dependent on outside
love, she is only as happy as the man that is currently loving
her, which makes her a slave to relationships. These lowly
women cannot break up or be broken up with without theatrics
and drama because they are hooked on a drug known as male
love. You are no longer addicted to this basic feeling. A man’s
love will never be so necessary that you give up your power
and betray your Spartan teachings in order to keep him.
The primary goal when dating is to find a boyfriend with
the same qualities you have, who exhibits the emotional
potential to grow with you. Throughout the deep talks, the
outside of the house bonding activities, and the between date
communicating, your mission is to peel back the various layers
of a man, ensuring that he is who he is pretending to be.
In addition to the exploration of a man emotionally and
mentally, you must also field test him by placing him in
calculated scenarios in order to observe how he reacts. I’m not
talking about dumb shit like “does he open the door for you or
hit the unlock button,” but real things that defines his
character. The mission is to bait these men into exposing the
good, bad, and ugly, in less than two months. “Wait, you mean
I can find love in less than two months?” Fuck love! This isn’t
about love because love is plentiful, this is about character.