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get away with cheating, and she bought into his diagnoses
above her own common sense.
I use her extreme to point to what may be your normal.
In a relationship, disagreements happen; miscommunication
happens. You two will become upset with one another, but you
can’t allow blame to be placed at your feet in such an obvious
way. This starts with owning up to your own pettiness, so it
can’t be used as a ploy. Sometimes, you will be in the wrong,
and he has the right to point this out. Know the difference
between you being unreasonable and him playing puppet
master. You wanted to spend time together, but he couldn’t
make it. So you caught an attitude as if he didn’t care about the
relationship. You told him to do you a favor, he forgot about it,
and you overreacted as if it was purposeful. You didn’t listen
to something he said, he got upset, and you were overly
defensive as if he didn’t have the right to be pissed. You
accused him of going behind your back when all you had was
a feeling, not real evidence. He called out your paranoia, and
you wouldn’t own up to it. Most women go overboard when
they feel as if something isn’t going their way in the
relationship, and often it will be imagined based on their past
fear or current paranoia. You may be more secure in your
emotions, but even you will fuck up. When you do, be woman
enough to accept responsibility for your actions.
A Spartan does not carry insecurities into a relationship
nor does she become so engulfed in love that she allows new
insecurities to grow based on the fear of losing her man to
another woman or losing her man to boredom. Those fears
project distrust that causes arguments where a man will be on
the defensive. Two people who are too stubborn to
communicate will always invite drama into their relationship,
and no matter how many times you make up, your relationship
will grow weaker over time, not stronger. That shouldn’t be in
your character at this stage of your evolution. Stay the course
and do not let negative thoughts take you back to that weak
place where everyone is out to get you. Once you become
woman enough to own up to your faults, you become immune
to guilt trips. There can be no blame placed on your mental