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are now a must-have whom he can’t allow to remain on the
market. Be selective. A man wanting you doesn’t mean he gets
you. What you’ve done is vet this man enough to know if he
deserves a spot on your team, not vet him enough to be your
boyfriend. Being your boyfriend means something special,
correct? You don’t allow just anyone to come in and lay claim
because they fed you and told you about their past. Even if this
man calls you the day after the second date asking you to be
his girl, the answer would be a resounding, “No”! Why?
Because that makes you a passenger moving fast inside of a
car that a man is driving. You’ve impressed him, you’ve
seduced him, therefore, he wants what he wants. Regardless,
he’s not in control of when you take a boyfriend, you are, and
this is just the beginning because after the second date the
rubber hits the road.
Making The Cut
Time is your best friend, yet women treat it as if it is their
worst enemy. Going forward, you must check your “in like”
emotions and take things slow. Being in like with a man feels
like love because he consumes your thoughts, pushes out other
men, and when you’re around him you light up. It’s just a
honeymoon high! You are supposed to like this man a lot,
don’t see it as “a sign” from the universe. He’s told you his
life story, but what have you told him thus far about your life
story? Nothing. These steps were meant to protect your heart,
not share it. The average woman, even those that claim to be
emotionally unavailable, falter by putting too much into a nonrelationship
at this point. You have avoided over sharing your
life story and avoided making him the center of your daily life,
and now that’s going to pay off. He’s not your friend, he’s not
your bae, he’s not your man; he’s a new recruit who just made
it through basic training. A man doesn’t go straight from basic
training to leading the platoon, he earns his stripes.
“But I want to give him his stripes, he does something to
me that I never felt and he’s been a perfect gentleman. Why
can’t he just be my boyfriend or just a guy I date exclusively at
this point?” If your brain waves are still set to those pathetic