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prevent pregnant pauses with preparation . 99<br />

good friend Karen about all the arrangements. I told her<br />

that for a period of time, I had been seeing two men—<br />

Ben and Steve. She invited me to tell her about both of<br />

them. I said, Ben has a great sense of humor. He’s the life of the<br />

party. He dresses like a million bucks and has taken me on wonderful<br />

trips. We’ve been to Hilton Head, Europe, and had a<br />

bunch of weekend mountain getaways. He’s a great golfer and<br />

an all-around wonderful guy.<br />

Karen could hardly contain herself, she was so excited.<br />

She said, He sounds like a dream. I’m so happy that<br />

you’re marrying him.<br />

I’m not, I replied. I’m marrying Steve.<br />

Karen was speechless. Finally, she collected herself<br />

and said, Well Debra, Ben sounds like a prince. Why are you<br />

marrying Steve?<br />

Because he makes me feel so special because of all the wonderful<br />

things he says about me. And you know what? He means<br />

every one of them!<br />

The power in a sincere compliment is enormous.<br />

There is nothing that makes people feel more special<br />

than to have their finer traits noted and appreciated.

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