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crimes and misdemeanors . 117<br />

get about making a phone call or getting a lawyer. The<br />

captive is forced to give staccato answers just to keep<br />

pace. He is held in custody at the whim of the interrogator,<br />

who, when finished with the questioning, unceremoniously<br />

dumps the captive and moves on to round up<br />

another suspect.<br />

The interrogatory method seldom works to anyone’s<br />

satisfaction. The agent would be much more successful if<br />

he asked open-ended questions requiring more extensive<br />

answers. The detainee would cough up plenty of information<br />

effortlessly if given the opportunity. The agent<br />

also makes the mistake of settling for one- or two-word<br />

answers. Digging deeper could have uncovered motives,<br />

alibis, opportunities, and background information that<br />

would have proved quite helpful in the agent’s quest for<br />

conversation had he asked appropriate, probing questions.<br />

He misses a great opportunity to gain information<br />

by not confessing something about himself first, which<br />

might have caused you to drop your guard and be more<br />

at ease, turning the interrogation into a conversation.<br />

The FBI agent is characterized by his exceptional<br />

nervousness. Help this person out by taking control of<br />

the conversational ball. Ask him an open-ended question.<br />

Follow up—dig deeper and use verbal listening

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