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10<br />

The Graceful Exit<br />

Whether you are trying to escape a convicted conversation<br />

killer or just want to circulate more,<br />

there are ways to artfully exit a conversation that leave<br />

the other person’s ego intact. I find that many people remain<br />

in a conversation longer than they should for two<br />

reasons: they feel trapped, especially if it’s just a twoperson<br />

dialogue, or they are so comfortable that they<br />

don’t want to leave. Comfort begets complacency. Why<br />

would I risk rejection with a stranger when I can stay<br />

here with you and talk sports? If you are at a party or an<br />

industry meeting and your goal is to meet people, you<br />

must find the courage to leave a conversation in order to<br />

accomplish your goals. Done properly, an authentic<br />

farewell will actually enhance your relationship.

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