mother’s abduction <strong>and</strong> her heroic escape with the gun.From the very beginning little Sophia’s baptism turned into a worldly <strong>and</strong> ecclesiastical altercation. They had planned tobaptize her following Niko <strong>and</strong> Claudia’s wedding, but Deda objected. Would it not look like she was Claudia’s child? Inan Orthodox baptism the mother is excluded from the service, she is considered unclean, <strong>and</strong> no ranting against thesetraditions by Alex<strong>and</strong>ra could sway the priest. The child is held by her godmother <strong>and</strong> is surrounded by witnesses, mostof them male.In addition Claudia’s father, frowning, voiced objections against a church wedding: Claudia <strong>and</strong> Niko were legally marriedunder German law, so why was there a need for a church wedding? Russia did not recognize a civil service, explainedAlex<strong>and</strong>ra, by Russian law Niko’s was an illegal marriage.The greatest obstacle, however, turned out to be the priest of the church the Dadiani’s usually attended. He refused toperform the rites without Claudia taking instructions from him <strong>and</strong> converting to Orthodoxy. Irakli, exasperated by thepriest’s intransigence, turned to another church <strong>and</strong> bribed its priest with a liberal donation. For once the universalpoverty of the clergy proved beneficial. The man consented, provided it would not be a widely publicized event <strong>and</strong> takeplace on a weekday in the late afternoon. With another liberal bonus Irakli enticed him to also perform Sophia’s baptism afew days before the wedding.Sophia screamed throughout the entire ancient rite. She was submerged in a huge, gilded cauldron of water, while thepriest read his incantations over her. Niko <strong>and</strong> Otar, Sophia’s natlimamanebi, helplessly poured a h<strong>and</strong>ful of water overthe head of their roaring niece. Aunt Sophia, who looked like a black angel in her severe widow’s dress, finally quietedthe child."Another unwilling soul pressed into the fold of the almighty church," joked Irakli at the reception a glass of champagne inhis h<strong>and</strong>, "Only this child," he pointed with his glass at Alex<strong>and</strong>ra, "rebelled louder against this ordeal than little Sophia,<strong>and</strong> you see what has become of her, always of her own mind, always unruly."Alex<strong>and</strong>ra gave her father a kiss <strong>and</strong> excused herself. Professor Dahl glanced at Irakli. "Alex<strong>and</strong>ra once indicated thatGeorgia was a matriarchal society. She did not elaborate on her remark, <strong>and</strong> all I see is a deeply entrenched patriarchalsystem."Irakli tilted his head <strong>and</strong> smiled awkwardly. "She did not divulge our best-kept secret? Yes, our patriarchy is a deception.But you should get that information from one of our ladies, I am implicated by my vested interests." He pushed out hischest <strong>and</strong> twirling the tips of his mustache laughed evasively. "You should pay a visit to the local synagogue. The TiflisJewish community consists mostly of native Georgians who were converted in the first century. They call themselvesMosaic Jews <strong>and</strong> are not Hebrews. Their rites are ancient, their history is very interesting."Dahl shrugged <strong>and</strong> said coldly, "Thank you for the suggestion, but what do I have in common with Oriental Jews?"Their conversation would have ended in an embarrassed stalemate had Alex<strong>and</strong>ra not brought the Bredows along."Papa, it is such a pleasure to see our best friends from Munich united in your house. We spent many wonderfulevenings at Mrs. Dahl’s house, she was like a second mother to Niko <strong>and</strong> me. It is a pity that Friedrich <strong>and</strong> Katharina arenot here."Alex<strong>and</strong>ra sensed that something had gone wrong between Dahl <strong>and</strong> her father. What was it? Her father was such aneasygoing man <strong>and</strong> Claudia’s father such a thoughtful, intelligent, <strong>and</strong> worldly person? How was it possible that theyseemed unable to find a common ground? Earlier she had noticed that her father appeared to avoid Mr. Dahl, but why?Clara <strong>and</strong> Mrs. Dahl took over the conversation, <strong>and</strong> the tense moment passed.At night Alex<strong>and</strong>ra told <strong>Konrad</strong> of the puzzling tensions between her father <strong>and</strong> Dahl. <strong>Konrad</strong> was not surprised."Dahlinvolved me in a long, rambling discussion about his impressions of Georgia. It was a mistake to take him to the baptism.He was horrified by the ‘barbarian’ customs of ‘forcing an innocent child into a religious system like that.’ Religions werea dangerous humbug which obfuscated man’s clear, rational mind—the reason for our lack of humanism. Whether it wasJudaism, Christianity, or Islam, ‘we need to eradicate religion by the roots.’<strong>Konrad</strong> said. "Remember the day in Andechs with Claudia <strong>and</strong> Friedrich? You eloped with Katharina, happy to havefound a kindred spirit. I had to listen to a long diatribe by Friedrich on the subject of religion. And you know howapprehensive Claudia is about the wedding <strong>and</strong> churches in general."Alex<strong>and</strong>ra nodded. "At Manana’s, who is fitting my wedding dress for her, I tried to help Claudia over her irrational fears.But Dahl is a sensible, intelligent man, why can’t he accept that other people have different traditions, needs, <strong>and</strong>emotions from his? He, as a psychologist, should underst<strong>and</strong> that. Is that humanism? And why lay it on Papa who issuch a cheerful, generous person?"<strong>Konrad</strong> began pacing the room. He hesitated to voice what had occurred to him during the conversation with Dahl. Afterall he agreed with Dahl in principle, though, of course, with more moderate conclusions."You know that I am not a psychologist, it is you who has that sixth sense for the emotional traumata that warp people’sviews <strong>and</strong> behavior, but you seem to have no clue in this case."He stopped his walking <strong>and</strong> looked at her. "During my talk with Dahl, it occurred to me that the origin of Dahl’simpeccable distaste for religion may well have to do with his past. By the power of his sharp mind, he extracted himselffrom what was probably a very narrow-minded, Rabbinical upbringing, deeply steeped in ancient <strong>and</strong>, for him,138
meaningless rituals. That may be one of the reasons why he chose psychology for his profession: He is not fightingreligion but his own ethnic inheritance, <strong>and</strong> you know how difficult that can be."Without a moment of thought Alex<strong>and</strong>ra agreed. "Sure, this could explain his dislike of churches, priests, <strong>and</strong> religiousrituals, but it does not solve my puzzle about his dislike of father <strong>and</strong>…"She interrupted herself hitting her forehead with her flat h<strong>and</strong>. "Come to think of, it is quite possible that father does notlike Dahl either. Why?""Did you listen to their conversation?""Unfortunately not, it was still hanging in the air when I arrived with the Bredows."Rowing his arms <strong>Konrad</strong> took up his pacing again. "You see, Lexako, there is an aspect of Georgian sensibility you arenot aware of, <strong>and</strong> I, for good reasons, have never mentioned to you. It has to do with what the Russians call dusha,‘soul.’ There are people who have a soul <strong>and</strong> others who don’t have a soul. Irakli has a soul, Dahl, in Irakli’s eyes,doesn’t. Don’t ask your father for an explanation, he cannot verbalize it, nor could most anybody who functions like he:They look at someone <strong>and</strong> know that the person has no soul, period, end of all rational considerations." He laughed. "Onmy first meeting with father he resolved that I had a soul <strong>and</strong> received me with open arms. And you decided that I had somuch soul that you had to have part of it!"Alex<strong>and</strong>ra knew, of course, exactly who were her soulmates <strong>and</strong> who her antagonists, <strong>and</strong> once she had made thisdistinction, it stuck to the person with many serious consequences. She nodded <strong>and</strong> looked pensively at <strong>Konrad</strong>. "Howdo you think this process works?"<strong>Konrad</strong> stopped before her <strong>and</strong> faced her, a frown on his brow. "I have thought about how you acquire such knowledgefor many years. It is obviously entirely visual. You look at somebody <strong>and</strong> know. In fact, words confuse you. You searchfor a picture in your mind that fits the stranger."He scratched his head. "You <strong>and</strong> father read body language. There are people with the ‘right’ <strong>and</strong> others with the ‘wrong’body language, or what is worse, no body language at all. Dahl speaks with his head. He has trained his body to remainmute."<strong>Konrad</strong> touched his lips with his clasped h<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong> then swept his arm. "I am convinced that this is the reason why Papais unable to trust him: Dahl is a western, intellectual, humanist, a Kopfmensch, who shows no feelings <strong>and</strong> permitshimself no intuitive spontaneity. He decides between good <strong>and</strong> evil with his head—a decidedly dangerous person!"Alex<strong>and</strong>ra smiled <strong>and</strong> said mockingly. "Are you serious in thinking that Kopfmenschen are dangerous? I have tried allthese years to control my emotions with my head."<strong>Konrad</strong> waved his head. "Yes <strong>and</strong> no. Kopfmenschen believe they make predictable, rational decisions, which, withouttheir knowledge, may be badly distorted by their suppressed emotions."He laughed briefly. "With you this is an entirely different matter, you are so openly emotional that a little head-control isdesirable for your own good. As long as you are aware that you make decisions emotionally everything is all right. It iswhen you lose your head that you become dangerous to yourself. Your intuitive grasp of good <strong>and</strong> evil is in excellenthealth, <strong>and</strong> you know that I rely on you more often than seems justified by my judgment. Your visions may sometimes becrazy, but they are not distorted by inherited traumata as Dahl’s are—a fortunate circumstance you probably owe to yourfather who loves you so consummately."44.Niko <strong>and</strong> Claudia's Georgian wedding, Tiflis1907Alex<strong>and</strong>ra finally swayed Claudia’s father to consent to the wedding. Nobody took this religious ceremony overlyseriously, she argued, it should be of ethnological interest to Mr. Dahl. The ritual was part of Georgian life, he shouldsimply consider it as a Georgian family celebration.Alex<strong>and</strong>ra’s dream to drive Niko <strong>and</strong> Claudia to church in the colorfully draped Benz, had been preempted by the priest’sdem<strong>and</strong> for a low-key wedding. The bridal couple, Claudia bravely clothed in Alex<strong>and</strong>ra’s wedding dress, with a seriousOtto holding the train, rode in the family phaeton. The guests left their hired carriages at a nearby square <strong>and</strong> walked thefew blocks to the church. By Georgian st<strong>and</strong>ards it was a modest wedding.The hurried <strong>and</strong> perfunctory ministrations of the priest <strong>and</strong> his helpers, the pair’s breathless run through the sanctumbehind the iconostasis, <strong>and</strong> the sarcastic comments of the guests, made, in Alex<strong>and</strong>ra’s opinion, an unholy farce of thewedding service. But it helped to make the ceremony less oppressive to the ‘unbelievers’ than little Sophia’s solemn139
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